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Just looking for abit of advice really, Im newly single, my was fiance is currently in afghanistan and after learning about him being unfaithfull and basicly not caring one bit about myself or baby ive decided i have decided to leave. Its hard with him being out their because the only means of conversation is letter phone or msn, none are totaly reliable and everythings up in the air at the minute. However aswell as trying to get over our relationship ive got another worry of being a single parent? How do you lovley ladies cope? I geuss it isnt easy but i suppose im just looking for some reassurance that it isnt going to be apsolute hell. This is my first baby, i am 18 and im preaty terrified to say the least. Thanks for reading :hugs: xx
 
Just wanted to give you some :hugs:. It won't be easy but hopefully you have some friends or family near who can be there when you need a hand or someone to talk to. I'm just making the transition myself, too, and a little worried, but I'm sure we'll be fine. Mummies are superpeople!! :)
 
I've been a single mum with my 1st from during preg til i met my now ex who left me for someone else whilst im carrying his baby.
It isn't a breeze or a walk in the park BUT there are so many more fab days than there are bad ones that you do cope & you WILL think what the hell was i worrying about lol
The bad days get you down & the slightest or silliest thing may upset you & make you havr the " why me " attitude, but then in the next second/day you will be on top of the world again because your baby either slept through the night & you got some sleep. Or he/she gurgled, smiled, did a funny trump, or just looked at you with gooey eyes & melted you. Believe me these things cheer us up tremendously & these happen far more than the silly bad times, If you have family or friends who to keep in touch with make sure you do even if its an hours phone call a week it keeps your sanity & adult speech going, oh yes you will start talking to people in a kiddy way & suddenly realise you sound a tit, Or there may be a week when you realise you aint seen any form of adult life & you will go to the shop just to talk to the counter lady lol Or take a bus ride just to get out the house lol All maybe comical but down right true.

On the bad days or low days you have to take 10 mins breather outside, or a mega long soak in the bath or you indulge in haagen daz lol So have some sort of goodees in for emergency stress moments. Keep somebody on msn or by text or phone who you can talk to, & if you can get fresh air most days.
Have pj days if you need to, leave the washing up if you're tired. These things really don't matter. I hope this makes sense hun.

More than welcome to grab me on msn if you want we can both moan & smile together :) xx
 
hun dizzymoo just got it all in 1.

iv been a single mum 2 from the very beginning of finding out im pregnant, my baby was planned infact took 15mnths as i have pcos and the ass still walked but u kno what i wudnt hav it anyother way now.

youl get by because you have nd also because ur female lol

xx
 
Thankyou so much =) I suppose it just feels daunting now, im sure when my baby arrives ill be just fine. Just stressing out at the min lol. But thankyou once again very helpfull to hear from you ladies xx
 

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