DS has had a high temperature since Wednesday evening and since yesterday is refusing to nurse. He is drinking water and he's ten months so I guess it's not the end of the world but it feels horrible. I want him to have the comfort if nothing else I've never had refusal before.. Dd fed for 14 months and we've been going ten months with DS. I expressed a load last night cos I was hurting and offered it to him. He took a little but wasn't fussed... So DD polished it off!!