Don't listen hun, so many women cope without men, you will be fine! My dad wasn't interested in me so my mum brought me up without him and I think she did a fairly decent job! As for the poster who said children should come from an act of love, how many of us here are accidents??? I know I am and it makes no difference to my life, my mum loved me anyway. This baby is a planned, wanted baby so it is coming from an act of love, just not the traditional route, I don't see why it's a problem??
And also, I was mentally stable when my son was conceived, I now have PND, something that I guess some people would say makes me mentally unstable! Does that mean I should not be looking after my son? There are some very daft people around xx