I think the lack of info is also frustrating. They seem to have so many opposing opinsometime. I sometimes wonder if I should ask for my notes and get a second opinion on my management second time round but then I kind of think what is the point as both my boys seem just fine and I'm still here so what have I got to complain about really.
Out of interest, if you don't mind me asking, how come you ended up with a c section?
Also - it is interesting you saying you did get dramatic shortening at 28 weeks, as the week before I had Jonny I thought I felt like my cervix was doing something, but put it my head as everyone told me it would most likely be my brain playing tricks on me. I think I was right, but I know my hospital wouldn't have done a stitch then anyway due to the risks. I wonder if there is some kind of cervix issue where everything is fine until a certain weight around 28 weeks where it suddenly can't cope. That's what I wonder if I need a second opinion on, as I was told progesterone wouldn't help me, but maybe that was incorrect as even with a shortened cervix, you still kept going for a good few more weeks.
I had a c-section because Fenix was breech, and the Doctor said it would be too stressful to deliver him naturally.
I am so confused about it all to be honest. I think the progesterone injections DID help keep any uterine contractions to a minimum. I did have frequent braxton hicks occasionally, but that was only if my progesterone injection was a day or so late (sometimes they were too booked to give it to me on the same day every week). I'm not sure if it was a coincidence or not. But I do think I have an issue with my cervix shortening too.
I would definitely get a second opinion.
Usually if you have cervix issues, the weight of the baby growing does pose a risk. If that was the case with you, strict bed rest could have helped.
I never even had any contractions or braxton-hicks at all with either of them. Jamie is started having them 20 mins apart and within a few hours they were 2-3 minutes apart. With Jonny, they were 2-3 minutes apart as soon as they started, I always thought if I went into labour again it would be faster second time. Thats also why I know there was no stopping it for either of them, I was contracting too fast and fully dilated within hours.
It might make you feel a bit better to know that research evidence shows that as long as your cervix measures a minimum 25mms at 20 weeks it should hold out for the majority of people, so sounds like your measurements were favourable.
I probably will get a second opinion just to put my mind at rest my management was ok and nothing was overlooked. If I was able to have anymore (it's dangerous because of my uterine scar, but I was happy with 2 anyway as I'm nearly 36!) I'd be interested to see if they did do a stitch just in case I'm one of the odd ones out who's cervix appears fine then gives up at a later stage