Lucy Lu
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LO has had a tricky month with his weight gain - he went two weeks around Xmas putting on no weight and in the latest 2 weeks, he's only gained 5oz. The health visitor isn't worried in the slightest - he looks perfectly healthy - she's just made the recommendation that I try and encourage him to feed for longer on one breast each time so he gets more of the fatty milk... (he's exclusively breastfed).
Anyway, certain family members' reaction to this is that he maybe isn't getting enough now, that he should be on hungry baby milk or even starting solids - he's only 3 and a half months old!!!! To me he's not showing any signs of needing early weaning - he generally has 5 feeds a day, is happy and contented after a feed and is sleeping 7-8 hours at night.
It's not like I will buckle and just wean early based on others' opinions but I find this kind of criticism and pressure difficult to deal with sometimes. Even my husband has just insinuated that I am trying to cling onto breastfeeding and need to let go at some point and move to the next stage - for god sake, he is 3 months old! I just wondered how others deal with pressure from family in how you're doing things? I can foresee this escalating over the next few weeks and I want to scream or cry at the moment
Anyway, certain family members' reaction to this is that he maybe isn't getting enough now, that he should be on hungry baby milk or even starting solids - he's only 3 and a half months old!!!! To me he's not showing any signs of needing early weaning - he generally has 5 feeds a day, is happy and contented after a feed and is sleeping 7-8 hours at night.
It's not like I will buckle and just wean early based on others' opinions but I find this kind of criticism and pressure difficult to deal with sometimes. Even my husband has just insinuated that I am trying to cling onto breastfeeding and need to let go at some point and move to the next stage - for god sake, he is 3 months old! I just wondered how others deal with pressure from family in how you're doing things? I can foresee this escalating over the next few weeks and I want to scream or cry at the moment