How hard is it to get pregnant

[dizzyshell]

ttc 1 -

16 long months ,wasted big money on opks and cbfms .wasted millions of tears , and loads hpt with negative result .

i dont understand how hard is it to make a god dam baby ??

with me i got bfp 6yrs ago in 4weeks , sadly wasnt ment to be , 6years later and 16months ttc later nothing not a sniff.

as far as tests go , ive had my bloods taken on cd21 -results good ovulate
Then came The smear type tests with gyno looking atmy womb -good again.
Then came ultra sound -all good.
I got lap/dye test 3rd may hoping that will be fine.

It seems everyone else in my life or in my city seem to get bfp within 2-4 months or by accident , or accident on pill .Its so unfair
or people ttc 2,3,4,5 and have no problem getting pregnant again.

Im only asking for 1 baby for god sake !!!!

Thanks for reading hopefully you get bfp for baby number 1 , we all deserve 1 at least goodluck baby dust ladies
xxx

 

[Indigo77]

Has your OH had a SA?

 

[Hena]

I know, it's so hard when you want a baby more than anything in the world, then you look around and see how easy it is for others, some of whom don't even want children!

Try to focus on all the love you will give to your baby when it finally arrives, after all you've done to bring the precious LO into the world.

Good luck, I'll be praying you get your BFP very soon!

 

[Kadan82]

Hey dizzy I understand what you are going through, I feel the same way. We have been trying for a year now and nothing . We are doing the tests now. Just had my HSG and found that one of my tubes is blocked, but the other is wide open. But yeah it's frustrating when it seems like EVERYONE around you gets prego at the drop of a hat. I feel like I'm the only woman around my age who isn't pregnant in this town I live in. Everywhere I look there is a cute pregnant girl with a few kids at her side. UGH...why?? It sucks that they can have SO many and I can't even have one!! Good luck and baby dust! I hope u get your BFP very soon!

 

[Damita]

 

[Lollipopbop]

I know! Your parents and teachers and the media always make out like it's just as easy as forgetting birth control once and then BAM, you're pregnant!

Me and my partner were NTNP for a while and I just assumed it would just happen like that, didn't even take in to consideration that I'd be calculating dates and peeing on countless sticks! But in the end, it will just make it extra special when it does happen.

Good luck to you, I really admire all you ladies that don't give up.. xoxoxo

 

[nuffmac]

I know! Your parents and teachers and the media always make out like it's just as easy as forgetting birth control once and then BAM, you're pregnant!

Me and my partner were NTNP for a while and I just assumed it would just happen like that, didn't even take in to consideration that I'd be calculating dates and peeing on countless sticks! But in the end, it will just make it extra special when it does happen.

Good luck to you, I really admire all you ladies that don't give up.. xoxoxo

MY thoughts exactly!! This whole ttc thing is so hard sometimes but I look forward to bfp day

 

[Madgirl]

I know what you mean!! Years ago when I stopped BCPs I thought it would happen pretty fast. Well over 5 years later I am still waiting.