How long did it take to get your BFP after mc?

[mrs unicorn]

Hi Ladies, I had an ERPC at the beginning of March after a MMC at 10/11 weeks. It was our first pregnancy and our 3rd attempt. We're keen to get back to TTC after af has arrived later this week. I'm looking for some inspiration / a reality check as I'm scared to hope it'll happen quickly incase it doesn't, but also scared to think it'll take a long time as I don't know how I'll cope

So I was wondering if some of you wouldn't mind sharing how many cycles it took from your mc to get your bfp. Thanks ladies

 

[Natty_babez]

Hi Hun

So sorry for your loss xxx I had my miscarriage at only 5 weeks and we started trying straight away and it took us 6 months. I miscarried in August last year and now I'm 5 weeks 2 days

Xxx

 

[mrs unicorn]

Thanks for replying natty. And congratulations!! Wishing you a H&H 9 months

 

[stiletto_mom]

I miscarried 40 days ago. While waiting for my first period, we got pregnant again.

After my miscarriage, my HCG levels dropped to 196. I never went back in to ensure it went to zero because just wanted to move on. I didn't bother to wait to TTC, we just started as soon as I stopped bleeding.

 

[mrs unicorn]

Congratulations stilletto mum!! We sort of TTC before af but didn't always feel like bding and I also o the same day as +opk so it was impossible to predict fertile days. Wishing you a H&H 9 months! Xx

 

[eva1978]

Sorry for your loss
With my early m/c at 5.5 weeks it took 3 cycles of trying (which was about 5 months -- two months in between we didn't try).
I had a mmc last July which ended up in a D&C in August. We started trying again 2nd cycle, and got preg on the third cycle. Now 26 weeks!

In both cases, the first cycle after things were "back to normal" never worked.

Good luck!

 

[mrs unicorn]

Eva thanks for your reply. Sorry for your losses but also massive congrats!!! I'm very anxious about how long it might take. Just hoping it'll happen before September which was my original EDD. Fx.

 

[CVR1986]

We waited 9 months to ttc again due to personal reasons (my offer of a place at university), but we got pregnant 1st cycle of ttc again. DD and the baby I miscarried took 3 cycles.

 

[mrs unicorn]

CVR - thanks for your reply. This fills me with hope. It also took us 3 cycles for the one I mc. Just about to start bding on our first cycle since!

 

[LouOscar01]

3 months after ERPC, which was a chemical, then pregnant next cycle after chemical...8weeks at the moment x

 

[mrs unicorn]

Congratulations Lou. Wishing you a H&H 9 months! X

 

[lxb]

we waited 2 cycles after d/c (July 2012 -- took us ~8 months for the first BFP), so started (kind of) ttc October 2012 and got BFP Feb 2013.

Good luck

 

[mrs unicorn]

Thanks ixb!

 

[Jox]

My af came 28 days after I properly mcd (was bleeding for a week or so before) then got my bfp the next cycle xx

My first son was stillborn and I got my bfp just 6 weeks after he was born. No af in between x

 

[mrs unicorn]

It really does break my heart when I hear that so many of us have had to go through these awful things. Amazing to see you gone on to have successful pregnancies since. Thanks jox. Wishing you a H&H 9 months! X

 

[BSelck24]

Hey Mrs. Unicorn! I know I've seen you around but I wanted to offer hope! My mc was March 24th at 5 weeks, I got my BFP before my first AF on April 21st! So it is possible! Have faith ❤️❤️❤️

 

[mrs unicorn]

Hi Bselck, yep I've seen you about too! Thanks hun, that's amazing, congratulations! I'm on my first cycle post mc, I'll know in a couple of days if it's our month...

 

[chitown28]

Hi Mrs. Unicorn! I had an early MC at about 6 weeks. It took my first cycle 6 weeks to arrive, and we sat that one out per doctor's orders. The next two cycles (cycles 2 and 3) were more timely, but the bleeding was a bit irregular with quite a bit of clotting. I think it took my body a while to regulate itself. On the 4th cycle now, our 3rd cycle of trying, and I just got my bfp yesterday!

Fingers crossed it happens for you soon!

 

[mrs unicorn]

Congratulations chitown! That's wonderful news! Thanks for your reply too. Sending lots of sticky dust your way. Xx

 

[CrowBaby]

6 months here. I started an exercise program and went on Metformin. I was on Metformin one month when I got pregnant. I had also dropped 20 lbs. Good luck my dear, cheering you on from here!