How To Stay Hopeful? Need Help

[ButternutBabe]

Hey,

Just looking for some positivity or something, I don't know really, anything to help me stay hopeful and on track. I think it's been almost a full year since my husband and I started seriously trying. In that time I've had a mc at seven weeks, my sister fell pregnant and had her healthy baby, and I'm still sitting here empty and feeling incredibly alone.

It feels so ridiculous that something as important and life changing like having a child is basically left up to luck.

 

[2ducks]

So sorry you are having troubles and feeling down. I stay focused by controlling what I can control....mainly my diet, exercise and my supplements to support my PCOS symptoms. I have been ttc for over a year and it sucks! In the time we started ttc my best friend fell pregnant and delivered her healthy baby boy. I also have dove into some home improvement projects. I am painting the room that will eventually be the baby room and I am working on re-seeding and amending our lawn because the grass doesn't grow well. One might think that painting a baby room for someone who is having trouble ttc would be depressing but i have been enjoying the project, the room feels fresh and new and it feels good to accomplish something like that.

The game of ttc is definitely not fair...it sucks that there is a crack head somewhere getting pregnant at this moment and I would be a great candidate for a baby but can't even ovulate on my own. Some days are just harder than others for all of us.

 

[donnarobinson]

I just wanted to say good luck girls and never lose hope
I was you just a few years ago
I tried for 3 long years for my first baby endless bfn and heartache every month
Then one month I was pregnant I had a lap and dye to see why I wasn't getting pregnant on 17th may 2012 they found nothing all was fine & on 31st may 2011 I got my bfp & I no have three gorgeous boys !
Never lose hope X
Ino it's so hard & unfair X

 

[ButternutBabe]

Thank you, both of you. I'm in my fertile period again and trying not to get too excited over it so I won't end up disappointed.