Husband has trouble reaching the big "o"

[Snowangel22]

Hi Ladies,
this is my first post. I have been trying to concieve for awhile now. I have never been pregnant, and I have been off the pill for a few years now. The "goalie was removed from the net" (off the pill) for about 5 years now. But I have been conciously trying to conceive for a year and a half. I find it odd I've never been pregnant. It worries me. I went to a fertility clinic and got all sorts of tests done...only to conclude my fertility was unexplained. Our next step was an IUI, but husband got a new job and we moved provinces...money got tight. To make matters worse, my dear husband feels the pressure when we are intimate around my time of ovulation, and has trouble ejaculating. Upon doing some research, I have decided the best method would be the "turkey baster method" with a syringe. Then he has his privacy and he can "o" at his own pace....which has been working. I need some inspiration ladies....has this method worked for anyone else who has had trouble conceiving? He has been such a good sport, and has been giving me samples twice a day! Any tips? He hands over the swimmers, I suck it up with my medicine dropper, and inject ....followed by making myself "o" and laying on back for 20 min...Is preseed necessary? Looking on this websie makes me wonder, first Ive heard of it. Any words of wisdom, tips, or stories you could share with this BB first time blogger would be great, thanks ladies!!!

 

[Princess Lou]

I don't know anything about the methods you are using but, you will have more luck he only gives you a sample once every two days. Sperm takes 24-36 hours to become 'good' so if he is doing it twice a day, although there will be sperm there, there won't be much and the won't be great.

Good luck. X