I am a miserable cow

[m_t_rose]

I am such a miserable cow. One of the women I work with told me she was pregnant when I was still pregnant. She was 5 days ahead of me in her pregnancy. She got to hear the heart beat today it is just made me think such sad thought. I kept thinking why does she get to keep hers but I lose mine. She is 34 and has a 1 year old. I guess I am just jealous. I feel bad becuase she deserves it and she is older so she has less time but I still feel jealous.

 

[shockd&amazed]

I know how you feel...I feel the same sometimes just looking at pregnant people. And when I went for my follow up scan to check mine had gone, happily pregnant women were wanderng by!!
I think it's normal and all part of the grieving process. But you've proven you can get pregnant and I am sure it won't be long til you're hearing the heartbeat too!!

Good luck xxx

 

[Rumpskin]

Hey lovely, I know exactly how you feel. A girl I know has told us she is pregnant. I am really happy for her but hey, I feel jealous. I dont like feeling jealous and am not proud.

Our turn will come x

 

[Vickie]

I think what you are feeling is completely normal

 

[Omi]

Dont feel bad! Its perfectly normal to feel that way...im the same. I dont even feel bad about it cause i know its not personally against them, its the injustice in the world that makes me feel that way..its the 'why not me?' isnt it?

I could go on, cause i work in social services-addictions...and there's stuff there i see daily that makes my blood boil, honestly ...

I try to be happy with knowing i got pregnant and try to focus on that, you know?

It'll happen for you, babe, it will xxx

 

[FunnyBunny]

I knew how you feel, I was at a Christening on Sunday, there were loads of mums and three pregnant girls and it was only been a week since my m/c, at one point I had to walk away from the group cause of all the baby talk. I was feeling so jealous and really sorry for myself.

I keep trying to think postive thoughts but it is really hard but so natural if so many of us feel this way.

 

[Wobbles]

What you are feeling is perfectly normal hun

It will get a little easier.

Here hoping your journey brings what you deserve soon