As I've mentioned on other threads, she wont let FOB come round anymore, he's practically banned from the house. We were only best friends, and before I got pregnant, my mum loved him and they got on so well - she never had a problem with him staying over even as we stayed in the same bed.
I understand she's mad at him - well probably the both of us. But my FOB is genuinely gutted that his relationship with her is ruined. He lives with his Grandma, and doesnt get to see his mum that often as she lives a little while away. (He does see his mum, he wasnt kicked out his family just moved away and he didnt want to move there.) He said he understands why she's not pleased with us getting pregnant, but he also said (and quite rightly) that he's never done anything bad by her, or even me.
Also, my relationship with her practically doesnt exist anymore. She is furious with me. She wont talk to me unless its to say, "I cant talk right now." She barely even looks at me - only when I walk in the room to see who it is. I'm at FOB's alone right now - him and his grandma are at work and I just feel so lonely. I have a big family but even when I'm home I feel lonely. My little brother has no time for me, my sisters and older brother are always busy/out with their friends.
And I know my mum being this way is putting a strain on my parents relationship as my dad isnt making as big of a deal about it - obviously he's not impressed but he thinks she's going the wrong way about it. And I know they're talking about what they're going to do about it - hopefully my dad will convince her that FOB cant be banned from the house forever, but I dont want her ignoring him like she does me right now.
I'm just so upset with it all.
I understand she's mad at him - well probably the both of us. But my FOB is genuinely gutted that his relationship with her is ruined. He lives with his Grandma, and doesnt get to see his mum that often as she lives a little while away. (He does see his mum, he wasnt kicked out his family just moved away and he didnt want to move there.) He said he understands why she's not pleased with us getting pregnant, but he also said (and quite rightly) that he's never done anything bad by her, or even me.
Also, my relationship with her practically doesnt exist anymore. She is furious with me. She wont talk to me unless its to say, "I cant talk right now." She barely even looks at me - only when I walk in the room to see who it is. I'm at FOB's alone right now - him and his grandma are at work and I just feel so lonely. I have a big family but even when I'm home I feel lonely. My little brother has no time for me, my sisters and older brother are always busy/out with their friends.
And I know my mum being this way is putting a strain on my parents relationship as my dad isnt making as big of a deal about it - obviously he's not impressed but he thinks she's going the wrong way about it. And I know they're talking about what they're going to do about it - hopefully my dad will convince her that FOB cant be banned from the house forever, but I dont want her ignoring him like she does me right now.
I'm just so upset with it all.