I am worried!

[elmaxie]

I posted this in 1st TRi but never really got much response....I think I have lost my very early baby, is this similar to what anyone here has gone through?

I have been having a rubbish week, started with my Dad having astroke, then finding out my OH had been viewing porn online(something he has NEVER done since I met him) even though he hasnt come near me in a week! So we had a huge row last night over it but its kind of sorted now. I was more annoyed that he did it just a few days after our poitive and if he was turning to porn now what would he be like when I was bumpy and sore and didnt want sex.

So we got a faint on Sunday, then AF ue Tues and we got a clearer , I then tested again on Thursday and it was very faint. I have been having sickness andvery tender nipples...but as of yesterday my sickness vanished and my nipples are less sore. BUT I have been having strong AF cramps and tolday I have cm with blood in it. So I tested and it was neative, well the CB cross appeared faint and blue outside the time limit.

I just dont really know what to do. I though I would go to GP next week but wouldnt be until my day off on Friday as I would have to go off sick from work(who are already on my case over being signed off sick by GP after my uncle died in May) plus I dont really know what GP could do???

Thank you for listening!

Emma.xx

 

[Emsi76]

Hi,

CM with blood in it can be normal hun! I would try and relax for the ext few days and test again midweek.

There could be loads of reasons for whats happening!

Good luck

 

[NikiJJones]

Oh Emma!
So sorry to hear this! My heart is really going out to you! I was so happy for you when you got your BFP and hoped that I would never see a message on here from you.
The CM with blood could be nothing to worry about. There is one lady on this forum who had tons of blood at about your stage and her baby is all fine: she's now seen the heartbeat etc.
Having said that the HPT result sounds like it's worrying you, though a faint cross does still sound like you're in with a chance.
When my symptoms vanished and I started with cramps again, I got straight to my GP and he sent me on down to the early preg. unit. The other thing is: do you have an NHS drop in centre you could go to this morning? I would get down there straight away and they will be able to test your blood hCG.
Sorry to hear about situation with OH. They can be so insenstive! Plus: your hormones must be all over the place right now. Whatever you do and whatever happens though, you must be clear about the fact that having had a row with him, and the bad news about your Dad has not endangered your pregnancy, whatever the result.
and try to get seen today by a doc if you can. Let me know what happens. If you need to chat send me a private message. Always here for you.
Niki xxxx

 

[buffycat]

hey emma.....sorry things aren't good for you at the moment...

lots of hugs for you though...i know this mus be a difficult time for you...

luv & hugs

 

[NickyT75]

Hi Emma

I hope everything is ok hun, but I agree with Niki... if you are worried pop down to your early pregnancy unit today & they might be able to put your mind at ease.

Good luck xx

 

[kaygeebee]

Em, I'm so sorry to hear this.

Love and hugs - try to stay positive.

 

[Visqueen]

Sorry to hear your having a bad time hope things pick up soon.

PS take his keypad and hide it so only you can get on net, that'l show him ha ha.

 

[mariucha77]

Sorry to hear this...
I suggest you go to the emergency gynecology unit at your local hospital after work and tell them about your symptoms. They should so some blood exams to check your HCG and progesterone level. Good luck and let us know

 

[Sambatiki]

Hi there,

Im sorry but if you are ill you are ill!! Hun bollox to work!! Get your self an emergency appointment with your GP.

Sorry if that sounded harsh but employers can not deny you the right to visit the docs.

Best of luck and hope that you have some good news for us soon.



Kerry

 

[shockd&amazed]

Hi sorry to hear about such a stressful week.
I had bleeding (light, going to heavy ) at about 4 weeks preg and am now 19 weeks gone. I hope that you still find out good news very soon. I'd test again in a day or two as some other ladies suggested, or see your GP and explain and maybe he can send you to have your hcg levels tested?
XX