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I thought I was getting better after loosing Ava at 18 weeks in March. Tonight my neighbor who I have been avoiding cause she just gave birth to a baby girl June 10th and I didn't want to see her i finally talked to her tonight. I will say she has been so nice and has not bothered me or tried to see me, i know she felt horrible for me loosing my Ava. I have 3 boys 20,17 and 11 and getting pregnant at 40 was a HUGE surprise then finding out it was a girl was a dream to me, sadly it was not meant to be. Anyway I thought I was strong enough to go outside and finally see her baby I managed to be ok so i thought , i held her and I burped her and I rocked her a bit and then i gave her back to her mother, i was ok. Went in the house to fold some wash and I totally lost it I just broke down completely. Why me, my Ava would have been here in 3 weeks, why is life so cruel. I should have not held that baby I wasn't ready. I am so lonely right now and I am just wondering when in gods name is this pain going to subside. Just needed to tell someone.
XOXOXO
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