Marie000
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I have always loved dogs, ever since I was little.
As an adult, I spent most of my time at university, going from one apartment to another. So getting a dog was never a viable option.
Two years ago we bought a house and moved to the country, so first thing I did was to get a dog. Then another. I thought two dogs would be much more fun than one. Both dogs were rescue and I knew they would need some work. I was sure I could handle it and I was so proud to be giving those poor dogs a good forever home.
Now I have had these dogs for two years but I am thinking of giving away one of them. I feel terrible. I feel like I failed as a dog owner. Poor Maggie could be such a good dog, but I feel like I am failing her.
She's a nervous dog, easily scared. She is nervous inside, almost claustrophobic. She is scared of the baby. What worries me about it is that she doesn't always react intelligently when scared. She gets nervous when the baby goes towards her, but she doesn't go away. She freezes. She is a very gentle dog, and will patiently put up with just about anything, but it still makes me nervous. I am constantly trying to keep her and the baby separated.
Outside, we cannot leave Maggie loose. She will not come back when called. I tried training her on that, but she is really independent. It's like trying to recall a stubborn cat. She comes back when she feels like it. Our neighbors are close enough that a roaming dog is just not an option at all. Plus, she has started attacking our ducks. She killed many of them over the summer when she accidentally got loose.
To add to all that, I do not have the time and energy to keep up with two dogs. I am suffering from depression and what little energy I have goes to taking care of the baby.
And we are broke. Paying for a dog trainer or behaviorist is just not an option. We are struggling to just buy dog food. We cannot fence the yard either.
Maggie is such a sweet dog. I'm sure she would be happy with the right family, but I think it might be time for me to admit that she is just not the right dog for us.
OH has never liked Maggie much and he only likes animals that are "useful" He doesn't understand how torn up I am about this. I made a lifelong commitment to this dog, and I failed. There's no other way to put it.
Sorry, no point in this thread really. I just needed to get this out.
As an adult, I spent most of my time at university, going from one apartment to another. So getting a dog was never a viable option.
Two years ago we bought a house and moved to the country, so first thing I did was to get a dog. Then another. I thought two dogs would be much more fun than one. Both dogs were rescue and I knew they would need some work. I was sure I could handle it and I was so proud to be giving those poor dogs a good forever home.
Now I have had these dogs for two years but I am thinking of giving away one of them. I feel terrible. I feel like I failed as a dog owner. Poor Maggie could be such a good dog, but I feel like I am failing her.
She's a nervous dog, easily scared. She is nervous inside, almost claustrophobic. She is scared of the baby. What worries me about it is that she doesn't always react intelligently when scared. She gets nervous when the baby goes towards her, but she doesn't go away. She freezes. She is a very gentle dog, and will patiently put up with just about anything, but it still makes me nervous. I am constantly trying to keep her and the baby separated.
Outside, we cannot leave Maggie loose. She will not come back when called. I tried training her on that, but she is really independent. It's like trying to recall a stubborn cat. She comes back when she feels like it. Our neighbors are close enough that a roaming dog is just not an option at all. Plus, she has started attacking our ducks. She killed many of them over the summer when she accidentally got loose.
To add to all that, I do not have the time and energy to keep up with two dogs. I am suffering from depression and what little energy I have goes to taking care of the baby.
And we are broke. Paying for a dog trainer or behaviorist is just not an option. We are struggling to just buy dog food. We cannot fence the yard either.
Maggie is such a sweet dog. I'm sure she would be happy with the right family, but I think it might be time for me to admit that she is just not the right dog for us.
OH has never liked Maggie much and he only likes animals that are "useful" He doesn't understand how torn up I am about this. I made a lifelong commitment to this dog, and I failed. There's no other way to put it.
Sorry, no point in this thread really. I just needed to get this out.