I feel stupid!

[FJL]

For making posts in this section sometimes about hoping I get a BFP this month or that, or posting away about myself as if I can naturally get pregnant when the chances are a snowballs chance in hell!

I hope you girls don't think i'm stupid for living on that 1 in a million chance each month I just don't want to be banished to the Long term TTC area for ever...this section makes me feel like i'm trying like a normal person sometimes is all

 

[dakini]

Don't feel stupid. I don't think anyone would want to kick you out.

 

[Arcanegirl]

Dont be silly FJL! I post in here as well as the other bit too...

 

[Mojo]

fjl your posts are great and it is that little bit of hope that keeps you going each month. you have to look forward your bfp and you know it's on its way, you just don't know when.

keep posting here, you make us giggle and a lot of us are in the boat, not sure what is going on and have doubts about getting bfp.

ok time for a group hug and group chant "we will all get our bfp, we will all get our bfp"

 

[poppy]

Please don't feel silly FJL - this forum section is for all people ttc, no matter for how long. Everyone is here to share advice and experience. There may be people logging on who have had a similar experience to you and would benefit from your advice.

You are a valuable member here. We are all a team! (now I just sound like someone leading a telesales team or a cheerleading squad!)

 

[Tilly]

Post where you like and I hope you get your BFP soon.

 

[Snowball]

Don't be silly. You give great advice and I like it that we all keep our morals up, ttc is very stressful. And you never know, this month could be your month

 

[FJL]

Awwwwwwwwwwww thanks guys I feel better now

 

[coccyx]

Stop right there.! I'm sure no-one thinks you are stupid. You are trying to conceive so have every right to be here, a chance is a chance never mind the odds. I am not trying to conceive so sometimes feel a bit of an imposter, but I do understand that the road to having a baby is not easy for everyone. I have never come across a website that is so personal, caring and informative, and that includes input from YOU.

 

[Snowball]

Stop right there.! I'm sure no-one thinks you are stupid. You are trying to conceive so have every right to be here, a chance is a chance never mind the odds. I am not trying to conceive so sometimes feel a bit of an imposter, but I do understand that the road to having a baby is not easy for everyone. I have never come across a website that is so personal, caring and informative, and that includes input from YOU.

You are completely right. I joined here as I know people IRL from my other forum and didn't want it to become common knowledge that we are ttcing. I didn't think that I'd last on this site because of the getting to know a whole new set of people but I must say everyone has been so welcoming and friendly. We are all in the same boat FYL and we all pull eachother through the tough times

 

[avistar]

Why say such silly things!!! YOU definitely are supposed to post here! And everyone on this forum needs your wonderful advice and comfort, just so that we my return the favor! Don't lose hope!

 

[akcher]

Always valued your thoughts and opnions. You make the this TTC forum brighter.

 

[Suz]

Dont feel silly SILLY.

This place is for support and we are all in the same boat together. Just some of us get off this boat and on different boats before others We will all get our BFPs some day.... I just know that!

 

[Carolina]

plus theres always a chance people get pregnant sometimes when they are told they are infertile and thedoctors are left baffled! i hope you get a bfp suprise soon!

 

[HAYS]

dont be so silly hun, your one of us no matter what!!!
and you offer good advice so cheer up hunny!
xx

 

[Sinead]

(((hugs)))). You can always rant on here. We all do at times, its normal and it helps.

 

[Mynxie]

Don'rt be daft huni, we've been trying nearly 3 long years and I still hope on that tiny chance

 

[scotchbonnet]

Oh no you didn't!!! Everyone on the forum has a free pass - we help and support each other!

We love you on the forum. I always find your posts insightful. You are especially the best in supporting others who are down. Why shouldn't we support we too?

 

[Samantha675]

I have been thinking a lot about this thread since you posted it, and I don't think you should feel stupid at all. You were being hopeful, and that is what this whole journey is about. Hoping to get pregnant, hoping not to lose the baby, that the baby is ok, that you get through labor, so on and so forth. If it were not for that hope a lot of babies would never be born. Now that you know that your journey to being a mom is not going to be as easy or quick as you had wanted, I don't think you should give up that hope, and it is obvious you have not. In my eyes, it makes you incredibly brave, and I admire your strength! Keep your hope, and don't ever feel stupid for it!

 

[faith_may]

Please don't feel that way