I lost my sh*t with the ex

[lovejoy]

Rant over.

 

[Dezireey]

I am sorry he did this and he puts her child first, its not right and I know how you feel. Is this other child his as well or hers from another relationship? My ex is doing this now and it is the most baffling, cruel thing a father can do to his own kid. I am lucky my boy is too young to understand and only met him when he was a baby, thank god.

My advice? stop messing about on his facebook page and stirring things up. It only hurts you in the long run and from my own experience just makes matters worse. He is a grown man and if he is behaving this way, let him, he will miss out, not you.

 

[lovejoy]

I am sorry he did this and he puts her child first, its not right and I know how you feel. Is this other child his as well or hers from another relationship? My ex is doing this now and it is the most baffling, cruel thing a father can do to his own kid. I am lucky my boy is too young to understand and only met him when he was a baby, thank god.

My advice? stop messing about on his facebook page and stirring things up. It only hurts you in the long run and from my own experience just makes matters worse. He is a grown man and if he is behaving this way, let him, he will miss out, not you.

No it's her kid from a pervious but she's upset his not more father like to her son? And is upset that he was visiting our kids(seen them 8 days this year). How can you just replace your kids like they don't matter. Makes my heart ache

 

[Dezireey]

I know how you feel, going through something similar myself only my FOB won't acknowledge, see, support or have anything to do with his 1 year old son. He told me when I was pregnant that he hates kids and couldn't cope with being a father (again) after his 5 year old son died. I later found out that this was all a big bag of lies. After 3 years he treated me like I was some woman he had a one night stand with and the child wasn't his, disgusting.

I found out three weeks ago that he has met another woman and she has a teenage girl and 10 year old boy that are calling him 'Dad' and a picture of him on her webpage saying 'father and son, a bond so close, a love that lasts forever'.

A few friends of mine told this woman and her daughter about me and they said I was a crazy liar who has made it all up and I should live in reality, not in a fantasy world. So they believe all his bullshit, again its disgusting and it infuriates me how ex's like yours and mine just get away with pulling this sort of shit. Makes my blood boil when they put other women's children ahead of their own. Totally goes against nature and selfish beyond words.

 

[Ceejay123]

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