I need ADVICE!

[tiffanyortiz1]

okay so me and my husband have been trying to concive, and I have these symptoms, but i have taken 2 test and they say neg.

VERY VERY TENDER nipples and breast,sometimes i get sharp pains in my brest and they are very sensitve.

ALways feeling bloated

11 days late on my period

My last period was oct.31 it was normal. and then 2 weeks later i started spotting brown blood for 3 days.

Mood swings like crazy, my husband says that im evil now

light discharge, sometimes light yellow somtimes white

But yet i went last week to get a blood test and it said neg and then a week after that i took a home test and it to said neg. i have been trying to not think about it to just see if the symptoms go away and they wont. my husband keeps telling me that im pregnant that he just knows i am and i say no because i dont want to think i am if im not. so please help me out with some advice, it would be highly appreciated!

 

[Arcanegirl]

If blood tests are sying negative then thats pretty conclusive.
You might want to get checked out by your doctor for why Af hasnt turned up.

 

[dakini]

I replied under the other post you made...and I see that you already got a blood test. That was going to be my suggestion.

Are you periods normally regular? When you got your blood test how late were you?

And not to dash your hopes, but I had some of the same symptoms (not the spotting though, just a very light period the cycle before) and it was bfn for me...hope it's a bfp for you!

If you are normally very regular, I'd go back and talk to your doctor so they can see what's going on...

 

[FJL]

Wow, thats a hard one! Being that late and having all those symptoms sounds like a really good chance of pregnancy! Are you normally late? What does the Dr say?

When was the last time you took a test? Might be time to test again!

Good luck

 

[tiffanyortiz1]

my periods are always normal, the only reason i worry is because my sister had the same spotting with her first baby, and she didnt find out she was pregnant untill 18 weeks because every test she took said neg, even her blood test. she finally went back to the dr. after 2 weeks of straight pain and cramping and they did an ultra sound.

 

[FJL]

Wow, how come your sister didn't show up preg? Is that a genetic thing hun?

With that in mind and the fact that your period is normally regular all sounds good. Could you go to the Dr and tell him about your Sis and he might do an US?

 

[tiffanyortiz1]

yes indeed, I planned on that, because when they did the blood test they didnt even really see me, see im married in to the military, so they drs. on base are really caring. they just had the blood tech give me the test and then they told me the results that all. so im going to go to an obgyn and see whats going on. As far as my sister, she took test after test and 1 blood test. her hormone level was never high enough. finally she went to the er for really bad cramps and they did an ultra sound and seen a little baby! i dont know if its genetic or not, my mother said she had a period the whole time she was pregnant with me. so i dont know whats going on with my body!

 

[Mojo]

if what your sister went through is genetic then you could also be pg even though the blood tests are neg. good luck and i hope your next test is a bfp.

 

[ColtonsMom]

wow.. I would definitally tell them about your past family history.. especially with your sister and your mom having periods they whole way through. I'm sure it's just genetic and you want to make sure, if you are pregnant, that you get the medical care you need for your baby to make sure everything goes smooth.
good luck

 

[loopylew]

AWW hun hope you get your BFP. I was in a similiar position this month and AF finally showed up 10 days late, i had most of them feelings though in 2ww including extremely sore nipples, couldn't wear a bra at one point it was that bad

 

[dakini]

Definitely tell your doc about your mom and sister (especially your sister). They still may not want to do an u/s for a few weeks as I don't think they can see much until about 6(?) weeks...but then at least they'll understand where you're coming from! GL on it being a BFP!

 

[tiffanyortiz1]

well ladies, My stupid period came on, what a drag. Im still going to the doctors though because Its VERY PINK looking. And with my family history! I will fill you guys in with the results when i get them! thanks for all your help!

 

[tiffanyortiz1]

UGHHHHH she got me that stupid what a dragg! I finally started the nasty Better luck next time! thanks for all the advice ladies

 

[Carolina]

good luck for next month!

 

[poppy]

Hi Tiffany! It certainly does sound positive!

Tender nipples and breasts are big pregnancy symptoms. Some women don't get positives for quite a while after they are due. I think it was Finlay'sMommy who got a BFP after testing for about 10 days. Look for her posts. Good luck!