I never wanted to be in this situation...

[Cazamatazaaa]

and I really didnt think id ever be typing this, but im a single mum to 2 children, who both have different dads. i know it isnt unheard of, but whos going to ever want me now i dreamed of finding mr right and getting married.

my ex drilled it into my head that i wont ever find anyone else.

 

[Ryders_Mommie]

I understand that compleatly. My FOB made me feel teh exact same way. Now I have found my amazinf boyfriend who treats me and my son amazing. I never thought anyone would feel for me like he does. I have my angel baby and my 11 month old son. I understand how it feels for your FOB to put you down. All I can say is hold your head up, be strong, and don't let anyone tell you that you won't be able to do anything or ever have anyone. I am here for you if you would ever like to talk.

 

[angelpkj]

FOB's ex was a single mum of two to two different dads at 23 ...

shes now 25 married with another baby,got herself a right good catch,lives in a massive house and pregnant again
i think all fobs just say ul never get anyone as a put down-they know itl hurt

 

[george83]

plus you have two gorgeous little children so at the end of the day do you really care what he thinks?

 

[xAmiixLouisex]

My mom has 5 kids, 3 different dads. I wont go into details but she's been with her current partner 6 years now and he thinks the world of her and treats us all as his own.

Don't ever feel like you're any less of a catch than any other woman. You'll find someone who deserves you and will love and accept both your kids with open arms. Chin up.

 

[Mammy2Joojx]

believe it or not hun but not all men are the same. Just because your last 2 relationships haven't been good doesn't mean there's a nice man out there who will treat you as you deserve to be treated & also treat your 2 beautiful kids as his own. Have faith, be patience & it will happen ex's say things knowing its going to hurt you, so don't let it affect you & show your ex you're a better person than him xx

 

[Snowball]

I think FOB's just say it to shatter our confidence hun. I've got 4 children by my ex husband and although I haven't gone into another relationship yet, I've had a lot of date offers. If a guy likes you, he won't pick and chose how many children you have or how many partners you've had

 

[Dream.dream]

My mom has 4 with 3 different people. her and my stepdad (whose basically raised me) have been together for 15 years. if its the right person then they wont care about any of that, they will love you, and will love your kids like they're their own.