i think im having another m/c

[becky77]

i cant believe this but i got my bfp on wednasday and am now bleeding, its not full flow, but there when i wipe.The hospital said there is no point going down as there is nobody there to scan me and to book an appointment with my dr and get him to book one.
i just feel so shit i had a missed m/c in october and it then turned into an incomplete m/c and i had to have a erpc in december.
i know nobody can say anything really i just wanted to get it out cos, only a few people know ,and my dh is on nights so is asleep, my mum is really poorly and i am trying to look after her and my twins and we have a house full of people who dont know.


Well i went for a scan today expecting them to say there is nothing there,but they found a gestational sac measuring 5 weeks which is exactly right, so they have taken bloods to check for hcg levels , so i should get those later today, but i am not expecting good news as i did another hpt this afternoon and it is very very faint so that cant be good. just wish they would hurry up cos although i know in my heart , its over its very hard not to get your hopes up ;( especially as the bleeding only lasted 2 days with no clots and no cramping
anyway will update later. sorry for the rant just feeling a little rung out .

xxxx

 

[Jessa]

I'm sorry to hear about what you're going through. You're trying to remain so strong in the face of something where you just want to cry. Remember that a lot of people have bleeding and go on to have healthy pregnancies. Don't make too many conclusions until your scan - even though I know that's really hard not to do.

 

[becky77]

Thanks jessa ,i know nothing is for sure yet but i just think there is too much bleeding for it to be anything else. yeh i am trying to stay strong ,but feel sick and kind of numb, i also have a massive headache which is making things worse. sorry for moaning just feeling a bit sorry for myself
xx

 

[todteach]

Sending you . I'm hoping that everything is okay hun. My fingers are crossed tightly for you and baby right now.

 

[Rebaby]

I'm so sorry I'll be hoping for the best for you

 

[sam76]

try not to worry xxx i know its hard fingers crossed for u xxx take care

 

[Kota]

so sorry you're having to go through this, I hope everything turns out alright for you, but if it doesn't, you know we're all here to support you if you need to talk.

 

[Orange lady]

Hey Becky
Thinking of you today.
I'm keeping everything crossed and thinking positive for you
xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

 

[surreysharon]

Cant you call the Early Pregnancy Assessment Unit at the hospital. Surely they can bring you in and do a scan? Express your anxiety on the phone to them

Very big hug x

 

[**angel**]

thinming of u xxx

 

[missbingohead]

sweetheart i no how scared you must be feeling i was 13 weeks on thursday had a great scan was so happy but then on friday i was cooking dinner the next thing i was in a pool of bright red blood just would not stop.
had a scan on saturday and the baby is fine i just have an area of bleeding in my womb (nothing to do with baby) im still losing brown blood now but seems to be settling down,
and after that scare i was sure that was the end of my pregnancy.
push for that scan your gp should ring the epau to get you straight in.
thinking of you xxxxxxxx

 

[LeaArr]

thinking of you.

 

[buffycat]

lots of hugs....

i know this is a horrible wait.....but i hope that it is nothing to worry about....

take care....

 

[Hunnyx10]

hope things are going ok for you today and that all is ok

 

[becky77]

Hi thanks for all your support girls you really are wonderful, i have got a scan on thursday morning thats the earliest apparently, so will have to wait and see.
The bleeding is lighter today and had none over night so not sure what that means, also had no cramps or clots (sorry tmi ) so will have to wait and see i guess , someone said to do a hpt and see if it is - but i am to scared in case it does. i am trying to think the worst and then anything else is going to be wonderful.xxx

 

[surreysharon]

Ahh glad about Thursdays scan. Something to concentrate on now.

Will be thinking of you and will keep thinking positive for you

xx

 

[becky77]

thanks surreysharon i will let you know how it goes .
x

 

[Hunnyx10]

i will keep fingers crossed for you as i know what you must be going through, as i have had 2 m/c and my last one was last june

 

[colsy]

I hope the scan proves you wrong! Sometimes you can have bleeding and the baby is just fine. Try to hang on to that thought before your scan, because there is a chance that everything will be OK yet. Good luck xx

 

[millymolly]

Hi

Thinking of you at this awful time. . .I know what you are going through but I sincerely hope the bleeding stops and all is okay for you.

Take care of yourself

xxx