I wish I could just give up hope

[Charlei]

It would make life so much easier.

 

[JACKDOLL]

Sorry your feeling this way.. xxxx
Infertility is such a struggle

 

[S_secret]

Oh boy me too. I wish someone would just say. You know just stop it's not going to happen. Or keep going it's going to happen. It's all the not knowing that sucks. Waiting waiting waiting always waiting

 

[mrsbertrand]

I'm with y'all!

 

[HopeBT]

I`m with you all
I usually try to be hopeful and try not to stress out, but sometimes the struggle and frustration is just too much
Got news of pregnancies 2 days in a row from my sis & friend, so truly happy for them, but its also like taking a bullet, keep asking when/if it is gonna happen for me someday

 

[6lilpigs]

I hope it happens really soon for you ladies, if theres such a thing as magic fertility dust consider it sprinkled in ample!! for you all xxx

 

[jwilly]

I'm with you. Just knowing either way would put my mind at ease.

 

[BelleNuit]

I agree. I could live a happy life either way, but want to know which version it will be. That said I've given up hope it will happen naturally for us, which has taken a lot of the pressure off. Now we're just waiting and saving up for IVF.

 

[jwilly]

Belle I feel the same. But now I worry what I will feel if IVF doesnt work for us either. I dont think I will know when to stop.

 

[BelleNuit]

I know, I worry IVF won't work too. My husband and I decided we would try a max of 2 IVF cycles. If it hasn't happened by that point we are not going to continue funneling our $ into something that doesn't seem to be working out for us. I think before starting any fertility treatment it is important to have a conversation about when to stop. That way the decision is made when you are not at the peak of your emotions.

 

[red_head]

I am so with you. Hope is an ass. It's so painful every month to wonder and hope! Every bloody (excuse the gross pun) month!! I don't think anyone who hasn't been here can understand how much it hurts.
I'm so sorry
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