Idiots of the world, I tell you..

[tasha41]

My sister went partying out of town at a hotel last night and 2 guys that were my age went with them. My sister's 2 years younger than me; she's a grade 12 in high school and I am a college student. I don't know about you, but that leaves me to believe there must be something wrong with these guys, why on earth would you hang out with high school kids while you're in college.. a 2nd year college student at that?

Anyways f*cking tools called me a slut because I'm pregnant! I'm sorry but if they expect me to believe that they never slept with their girlfriends, who were on birth control, without a condom.. I'm just not going to buy it. I can't stand how ignorant some people can be!

Not to mention it's not like I'm having a baby with a stranger I had a one night stand with, it's my boyfriend. No, we weren't together for very long.. but we had been seeing each other for quite a long time before that. And we're planning to get married and buy a house, I'll be finished college hopefully before my maternity leave is over (hopefully will mean I can get a "real job"), and where will these idiots be? I guess drinking in cheap motel rooms with underage girls or something..

I honestly want to facebook message them or something asking who they think they are..

 

[LongRoadAhead]

Ohhh sweets
Really sorry for those bloody idiots! I think the world is always going to be full of them!
I hate people like that who just judge you before they even know what situation your in!Sometimes you just want to stand there and scream it at them and hope they'd understand, But even then I doubt them childish boys would of.
Im exactly the same as you, I was on the pill and fell pregnant, and I too have been judged saying 'Im a stupid little attention seeking slut whos going to have no life before Im even 20'! People like this really make me sick!
Try your hardest not to let them get to you hun, easier said than done I know, but honestly their not worth it! Just think this time next year, they'll still be sad little boys drinking with young girls whilst you have the beautifulest baby and be the proudest mummy
Xxxxx

 

[nikky0907]

Creepy idiots!

 

[PixieKitty]

Urgh, what complete idiots!

 

[Sherileigh]

I remember when my friends niece got pregnant at 15. I was talking to another friend about it and she said 'you play, you pay'. It made me so mad..AS IF this friend had not had sex before and when they did, she also didn't want a baby. This 15 year old was with one guy...her boyfriend and they did use precautions...It was a tough spot for everyone.
People find it really easy to judge when it didn't happen to them.
And those guys, well they just sound pathetic...I would say something rude to them on facebook. Or just delete them, you don't need people like that in your life!

 

[tasha41]

I think it's an issue unique to being a young mum; everyone still sort of knows where other people are at the first couple years out of high school and you still live in the same town, bump into each other at bars, malls, etc.. I just hate it! I wish I could move away from alllllll of these people

 

[fairywings]

One day these people wont even matter to you, take it from someone who knows! For other reasons than pregnancy, but I thought the people would forever be around making me feel inadequate and you know what? I never see them now, and if I did I would not even give them those thoughts anymore.

Cause no matter what no one can judge what they don't know, just be happy and ignore the twat-bags! You will be the one to have made something with your life ten years down the line while they will still be immature brats.

x

 

[LilMama2be]

Oh man i hope they know who they're messing with.
Its never pretty to anger a pregnant girl.

My best friend bitched at me so punched her in the face :]
showed her never to bitch at me ever again.

I TOLD her too that i was having A HORRIBLE day and if anyone fucked with me i'd punch em. i guess she thought i was kidding.


haha :]

 

[jessicajane]

ignorant arseholes, honestly! i rly h8 people like that, piss me rite off. its just such a stupid misconception now dat people think all young mums r tarts n sleep wiv anythin, but thats so not the case!! argh! makes me angry haha, good luck wiv ya pregnancy babe xxx

 

[beija_flor]

Well, it's clear they're ignorant, immature boys. I don't think any worthwhile adult person would look at you and think such a ridiculous thing.

I think pregnancies in general can make many males feel uncomfortable, especially if they're very much single and non-family-oriented. When DH took me out to Indian the other night and we got up from the table to leave at the end of dinner, there was a table full of four young guys around 25 who looked at my belly in horror. I just laughed it off, honestly

 

[bootyb]

yes hun they are fuckwits not worth wasting your tym on. give them a piece of your mind nd shut that door people are prejudice where-ever u go. jes concentrate on you being the best mummy you can be to your LO on the way. Thats wot im doin, prove all the idiots of this world wrong. that u can do it. go gurl

 

[Laura--x]

Bloody idiots !! I hate people like that grrrr xx