I'm a crap mum because...

[BrokenfoREVer]

According to FOB I'm a crap mum because....

I'm enjoying my last weeks baby-free away from him before LO gets here in the company of my friends.

I make my own choices how long to stay out at night

I've 'sat on my arse & let everyone buy everything for me'

I 'used' him

I won't let him take LO away when he's born.

Anyone else wanna share?

 

[Laura2919]

Ignore the twat! Tell him your your own person and if he dont like it then deal with it..

 

[MummyJade]

What a utter nob! Hes just trying to put you down in hope it upsets you...
Ignore x

 

[ka_ox]

He's. Talking. Utter. Crap. :l

Ignore him! I know it's hard but he seriously has no clue. I know I don't know him, but I feel like I do because of when we speak. And he doesn't deserve to be called a dad, he's failed as a dad once already and I hope he doesn't fail with your son. He's the crap dad.

So what if your enjoying your last baby free weeks? Thats what the midwifes suggest, and this way once your sons here you can consentrate on caring for him! You still have a life, what does he expect? You to sit at home all days for the next few weeks waiting for your son? I doubt he'll be doing that!

You've been pregnant, and had pregnancy related illness (SPD) so how can you do anything? You've not sat on your arse getting people to buy things for you, you've just made the best of the situation. What more can you do?!

How have you used FOB? He's done nothing atall, therefore how could he be used?!

And as for taking your son away when he's born, like you'd let him do that. And if he can't understand your reasoning behind that, it's worrying.

Ignore him! He's the crap parent xx

 

[JA1988]

What a twat! I have been told by FOB that just because I ask him to contribute financially towards our son, it must mean that I am in financial difficulty and FOB says he thinks he should ring social services as I clearly can't afford to look after our son! Nob!

 

[Laura2919]

What a twat! I have been told by FOB that just because I ask him to contribute financially towards our son, it must mean that I am in financial difficulty and FOB says he thinks he should ring social services as I clearly can't afford to look after our son! Nob!

FOB once tried to say I didnt love my children honestly, they straws they have to cling to!