tashakawaii
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Hello all!
I am from the UK and I have been with my girlfriend now for almost 3 and a half years, but I've known her for about 9. We were best friends in high school.
My brother recently became a new dad back in November of last year, and this past weekend we only just got the chance to meet my little Nephew. It has seemed to have switched something on in my girlfriend's brain. She is now extremely broody and keeps going on about acquiring a donor and having a baby.
I am in no way against the idea at all, I am just finding it difficult understanding how I would come into it. I mean, it would have her genes, and some other guy's...what would I be? I can't help but think I would feel left out and unable to connect to the baby. I have told her I'd rather just adopt a baby who is already in need of parents. But she is quite adamant she wants her own.
I really need some advice with all of this, I fear I am going to be losing sleep over this...
I am from the UK and I have been with my girlfriend now for almost 3 and a half years, but I've known her for about 9. We were best friends in high school.
My brother recently became a new dad back in November of last year, and this past weekend we only just got the chance to meet my little Nephew. It has seemed to have switched something on in my girlfriend's brain. She is now extremely broody and keeps going on about acquiring a donor and having a baby.
I am in no way against the idea at all, I am just finding it difficult understanding how I would come into it. I mean, it would have her genes, and some other guy's...what would I be? I can't help but think I would feel left out and unable to connect to the baby. I have told her I'd rather just adopt a baby who is already in need of parents. But she is quite adamant she wants her own.
I really need some advice with all of this, I fear I am going to be losing sleep over this...
welcome to bnb
