I'm about to lose it with him

[mummynummy]

I'm fed up with my OH verbally abusing me, calling my lazy, bitch, messed up, f***ed up in the head, psychotic. I admit I have mental issues I got depression. He goes I'm all that when you says to jump off a cliff and to forgot about my daughter because she be better without me. All this because I'm tired and not feeling well, literally about to snap, had to get this out before I do it won't be good for my unborn baby and my daughter. I had enough my family doesn't give a toss l just wanna scream!!! Sorry about my rant

 

[ClairAye]

Wow what a complete dick! That is totally unacceptable

Sending hugs

 

[amytrisha]

why are you with such a horrible guy hun? you need support, your the mother of his kids and it is completely unacceptable to speak to you like that.

xxx.

 

[justhoping]

^^ what they all said..

hun you need to leave this A whole that is abuse plain and simple....you children will be watching this and repeating this if you stay...

you deserve better....get out now hun

xx

 

[mummynummy]

i wish its easy said then done as i live with him and my family wont take me back as i have a lo and another on the way D: xx

 

[amytrisha]

Can you not get help from your local council? It's sad that your in this situation, have you threatened to leave? Does he know how badly his behaviour is affecting you? xx.

 

[JessicaaJadex]

This isn't normal behaviour hun, and although you might not think it, its classed as domestic abuse. I know this, because it's exactly how my ex-boyfriend used to treat me, and I just thought it was 'normal' to be treated like that. Have you got anyone that would be willing to take you and your LO in?

You deserve much better than this, and i'm sure you don't want to expose your children to that type of behaviour. Sending you hugs, i'm sorry you have to deal with this

 

[justhoping]

i know we have help here for women in domestic violence..i remember when i lived in the uk they had something set up for women in ur situation and help them get out and get on there feet...
i would suggest calling ur local womens domestic violence unit ??

thinking about you...

 

[tinkerbelle93]

I agree with what everyone else says and a woman shouldn't feel trapped in an abusive relationship there is help, I hope you can sort something out big hugs xxx

 

[x__amour]

If you explained to your parents what was going on with the abuse and such, would that change anything? I hope you can get the help you need.

 

[mayb_baby]

I hope someone can help you like your parents he sounds awful

 

[mummynummy]

Thank you for all your replies, I feel more confident about the whole situation and I gave him a last chance, if he carry on I'm out but so far so good, fingers cross it stays like it love does stupid things to people xxx

 

[Night Flower]

Do you two ever have deep communications with eachother to work things out? Sounds like HE needs mental help.

 

[justhoping]

I know you want to work this out, but he is an abuser and they do not get better unless they seek help, in fact they get worse and i CAN ONLY be very scared for you and your little one if you where to stay. I been there and I also gave chances. Im sorry to say but I wanted and loved him so much I let my kids live in that situation, this is what your doing to ur little ones..he will be good for a bit, but it wont stay....an abuser is an abuser and they dont think they are doing anything wrong. It is actually a mental condition and witout help it can get dangerous...it can get life threatening.. honestly wouldnt stay unless he agreed to get help and as well with that go to anger management and couples counseling...yes he needs ALL THAT TO NOT DO WHAT HE IS DOING.. nothing else will stop him......love does strange things but LOVE DOESNT HURT SOMEONE THEY LOVE...if they do they do not love.....!!

 

[BabyMamma93]

I know you want to work this out, but he is an abuser and they do not get better unless they seek help, in fact they get worse and i CAN ONLY be very scared for you and your little one if you where to stay. I been there and I also gave chances. Im sorry to say but I wanted and loved him so much I let my kids live in that situation, this is what your doing to ur little ones..he will be good for a bit, but it wont stay....an abuser is an abuser and they dont think they are doing anything wrong. It is actually a mental condition and witout help it can get dangerous...it can get life threatening.. honestly wouldnt stay unless he agreed to get help and as well with that go to anger management and couples counseling...yes he needs ALL THAT TO NOT DO WHAT HE IS DOING.. nothing else will stop him......love does strange things but LOVE DOESNT HURT SOMEONE THEY LOVE...if they do they do not love.....!!

I agree with this post.
its so sad how a person can make another feel! especially when you cant see it your self, i feel for you hun, no one should live with someone that calls them names, my OH does it to me in a joking way and even that gets to me deep down even though i laugh it off, but in a serious way, you dont deserve that!
Id make sure he gets help and if he doesnt you need to get out of there, i understand it must be hard to read with people are saying, especially when you love him and really believe he has changed over night, but you need to do whats right for you and your babies.

Good luck hun i wish u all the best