I'm getting so angry now why cant i get pregnant !!!!!!!

[dizzyshell]

Sorry for the rant ladies , but seriously loosing my sanity with TTC .

its been 20 months TTC and loads of NTNP before that.

Ive had every test ,my o/h has 9year DD from previous realtionship .
My o/h sperm is high.I also had ONE pregnancy 5.5years ago sadly it didnt work out .But i got BFP in 6weeks .So ttc this long is driving me nuts now.

Im very chilled out , to chilled im told, but TTC is taking over its always on my mind .Ive tried realxing and nothing.i use opks and i ovulate same cd day every cycle cd11-12 .

I dont know what else to do but try try try grrrrrrrrrrrr

sorry for rant to every lady TTC xxx

 

[CryHer]

sending your way, I know how frustrating it is. I've been ttc for almost a year now.

 

[Princess Lou]

Hi,

We've been at if for over three years and although I would love to say it gets easier, it really doesn't.

Hubby is 'perfect' but I don't ovulate or produce a lining on my own.

Just finished six rounds of Clomid and waiting for AF to start for the sixth time, currently six days late and got a BFN this morning, worst thing is my review appointment will be at least 12 weeks away.

Have you been in for any tests to see why you aren't falling pregnant or received any treatments?

Good luck. X

 

[Sophe]

really feel for you hun, i feel the same its so bloody annoying, they can't find anything at all wrong with me!!! DR tells me shes confident i will be pregnant and not need my appointments but i keep showing up for them!

i have just taken my first clomid pill this evening, but after so many BFN's i don't belive in my heart the outcome will ever be any different! I hope to be proved wrong!

20 months is a long time and NTNP before hand too! I have been TTC for 1 year, but we were not using anything for a few years before that, but i was totally unaware o OV etc, so was not really trying, but still you'd think I would have had a BFP by now, its screws with my mind, go over and over it!!

I think you will get a BFP very soon though you and DH are both fine, maybe theres just a delay but it not impossible! Good luck!

 

[Armywife84]

Some days I can shut it out of my head, other days I lay at awake at night wishing on a star to be pregnant before my DH leaves.

Perhaps you should try taking a break from temping and ovulation tests...I just got tired of putting in that hard scheduled work every month and getting nothing. Finally I just said what's the point, and haven't done it in the last 4 months.

Sometimes, you have to just cut yourself some slack.

 

[Jennifer01]

I think it goes in waves(for me at least!) we have been ttc just over 2 years, and ntnp about 3 years before that (not to mention using "reliable" withdrawal method for about 3 years before that!). Sometimes I feel good about the fun things we can do with other adults, not relying on babysitters, etc. Then there are the other times. When I feel furious with every pregnant woman. When I just want to cry on the couch. When I start thinking I must have done something to deserve this. And...I get into the wine (ha!) Now I just try to distract myself when I can feel I'm getting down, like go for a drink with a girlfriend, out for the night with OH. The worst times for me are when someone announces they are pregnant and not trying/not excited. Good luck with everything, and try to enjoy the good stuff in between the bad

 

[Soili]

You could try Soy. Some girls with regular cycles get lucky with it. Just research it well and consider pros and cons.

Also, if you ovulate at the same time, then just drop everything. You don't need no OPKs or temping or whatnot.

 

[rachel_f_]

Sophe you have to believe in your heart that it WILL work!! And shell its going to happen!! I'm going to try softcups this month as welll as my first round of clomid (I have one more pill to take!!!) Softcups apparantly keep the sperm pooled around the cervix, suppose its kinda giving them a hellping hand in a way!! I'm willing to try anything! To the point where I wear a bracelet everyday containing precious stones that boost fertility!! Its gunna happen girls don't lose hope!! Xxxxx

NTNP 4 years.... TTC almost 2! Xxx

 

[Armywife84]

Another thing to keep in mind, is that you're doing EVERYTHING you can each month. You're giving it your best shot, sometimes that's all you can do.