I'm sixteen and pregnant !!!

[moniquetaylor]

"im monique im sixteen in grade 10, i failed a year. right now its summer time , i once had an abotion back in oct, i went through pain and hurrting when it happened and then i decided to plan a pregnancy ... how stupid was i, now im 8 weeks pregnant i .... act like im tough but deep down im hurting unsure of what to do , i dont want an abortion but of course my mother .. wants that and then my dad wants me to choice, and the farther of the kid just wants to know if hes going to lose anothing child. im only sixteen and im sooo overwhelmed with morning sickness im scared of getting stretch marks im scared of being alone, i just want help, i want to know if i should.... not have it but i know i wont be the same because ive been reading up about my baby and its growing deveolpment i love it but then i have such bad doubts one minute, im strong and i know i can do it but i had so many goals for myself, what if i cant live my life the way i wanted too.. im just lost right now if you could give me some advice i would really love that.. .. right now my mom is claling the abortion center to set an oppointment p and oh god i know god is going to hate me...."
i want to keep it soo bad im just scared.

 

[mBLACK]

There are alot of programs out there that help teen parents. Let me tell you one thing - once you have babies, your hopes and dreams for the future change. I'm 15 and a mother to a beautiful little baby boy, Joseph Dawson.
Don't get an abortion for your mother. This is your life and the decisions you make from here on out will affect YOUR life aswell as another little persons life forever. Listen to your heart and don't think too far ahead - take it one day at a time.

 

[moniquetaylor]

thanks. yeah i told my mother i really want this, but then i just soo scared since im only sixteen, but im 8 weeks pregnant...

i just dont think i could go through another abortion to much pain
thanks for your reply and hes adorable.
15 wow really?

 

[Mynxie]

sweetheart, do what is best for you and your baby

Everyone is scared of the unknown, of things changing and stuff like that - sometimes being scared is good

 

[Carley]

Babe no matter your age even older mothers we are scared too...you are not alone.

 

[brownhairedmom]

There are alot of programs out there that help teen parents. Let me tell you one thing - once you have babies, your hopes and dreams for the future change. I'm 15 and a mother to a beautiful little baby boy, Joseph Dawson.
Don't get an abortion for your mother. This is your life and the decisions you make from here on out will affect YOUR life aswell as another little persons life forever. Listen to your heart and don't think too far ahead - take it one day at a time.

^ listen to her, she knows what she's talking about.

 

[maybebaby]

What Rae said.

 

[Jaydensmommy]

Hey girl! Well my names Brianda. Im 17 and im pregnant. so im close to your age! Im almost due anyday now actually. I was actually really scared in the beginning, but it seemed to get much easier. I also had a lot of family support, so hopefully you have that! But dont worry its a scary thing. But i honestly have to say it gets much easier. and its amazing feeling the baby! If you need anything or have any questions or just wanna talk im on here! Good luck

 

[Jaydensmommy]

Alos i agree with mBLACK 100%!!!!!!! I was lucky enough to have parents who didnt want me to get an abortion. But i dont believe in it so it never crossed my mind. But in some cases it seems better. I was about 8 weeks when i found out i was pregnant and i saw the babies heartbeat and that put everything in perspective! I knew he was alive in there and was growing everday!!! You do what YOU think is best. Theres sooooo many resources you can get, from chruches, community, online things like this! Dont be dicouraged because of your mom. This is your baby not hers. PLEASE do what you want. It will be soo hard if you do it just because of your mom!

 

[polo_princess]

I agree with what Mary said .. i couldnt put it better myself!!

 

[AppleBlossom]

Agree with mBlack too. It's your decision, not your mothers. If you have any doubt in your mind about having an abortion you should think it through. Part of you obviously wants this baby. Of course it's scary for every first time mother but it's also a great experience and is worth every stretchmark! Good luck with your decision x

 

[ashleigh2188]

I agree with Mary too she's such a wise lady!!! remember having children wont ruin your life, just change the path you take good luck sweetie and keep us updated xxxx