I've been TTC for a total of 15 months (13 mo trying, then lost the "finally" baby at 11 weeks; then trying for 2 months more after). It's particularly frustrating since it doesn't seem like *anything* is wrong. At first I thought it was me since I'm already 35, but an ultrasound showed I'm ovulating normally and all parts look okay. Then we thought it was him, since he had a SA with extremely low counts. But, a second SA showed his numbers to be fantastic after all.
The only thing that I can think of that's making it so damn hard is that I don't really ever make EWCM. In fact, the only time I remember doing so is the month I actually fell pregnant...but usually my CM around O-time is like water. Like, really like water the way that water is not in any way slippery.
Anyway, I really want to try improving this in the hopes that maybe this is the problem? I've heard grapefruit juice can help; I've tried Robitussin also but it didn't seem to do much for me. Anyone else find ways to make this stuff go better?
The only thing that I can think of that's making it so damn hard is that I don't really ever make EWCM. In fact, the only time I remember doing so is the month I actually fell pregnant...but usually my CM around O-time is like water. Like, really like water the way that water is not in any way slippery.
Anyway, I really want to try improving this in the hopes that maybe this is the problem? I've heard grapefruit juice can help; I've tried Robitussin also but it didn't seem to do much for me. Anyone else find ways to make this stuff go better?
