In shock! Never thought I would actually see the day....

[littlekitten8]

that FOB would apologise for being such an idiot and for not being there for James! After phoning him yesterday due to a letter from the bank (long story) and him actually saying he would like to be able to see James, he phoned me at 8pm totally out of the blue. He wanted to arrange to see James and actually asked about him without being prompted! I almost died of shock. Then he went and topped it by admitting that he hadn't made enough of an effort to see James and that he regretted that. And asked me how he could make things right and wants to make an arrangement to see James. I have told him he can see him but that he needs to stick to any arrangement we make. And that if he doesn't then its a 1 strike option. He doesn't turn up, its over. He actually seems to genuinely want to sort himself out. So we will see if it lasts.

 

[Mumof42009]

Hope he sticks to it hun for James's sake, Has he ever seen him at all? I would ease him in gently and make sure you are there 1st few times xx

 

[littlekitten8]

We were together til James was 13 weeks old. But since then he hasn't seen him at all. I have already told him that he will be seeing James in my supervision until they have formed a relationship and I am happy that they can be alone together.

 

[billy2mm]

thats goood that he is making the effort now - better late then never.

as long as its regular then good on him!