Is it just me? :/

[imaginary8x]

I still have feelings for FOB. I know I don't stand a chance as he has a gf. :/

Just wanted to know if any of you girls felt the same? or maybe I'm just lonely. :s

 

[midwestbelle]

im the same. we havent been apart for long and he has put me threw hell. i think its the whole having a kid with him thing.

fob was there all during my pregnancy and birth of ds. i resent him, but i miss him like crazy.

 

[teal]

I don't. We broke up the same day I told him I was pregnant and he's never met LO. (his choice)

Sending you lots of hugs xx

 

[laura1991]

I feel exactly the same, Im just hoping it gets easier!

 

[amygwen]

I felt exactly the same. One of the best pieces of advice I can give you is to keep your mind off of him as much as possible. Do you have anyone you can talk to, like close family or best friends? If I ever felt like I missed him or wanted to talk to him or see him, I'd call my best friend and I'd cry but he would cheer me up and make me feel tons better. Either way it just gets easier in time, it's really hard at first especially when there is a child involved, but the best thing you can do is keep your head high and do what you have to do for your LO. It will all get easier in time though! Thinking about you

 

[bw1691]

Snapp, we split on boxing day but we knew it was coming for a long time. but what hurts me most is he said he was upset, but in person when he comes to see baby he is always happy and acting like normal and laughing at texts he gets. but then im sat there feeling like im tearing apart inside especially that he didnt say one word against splitting up and do anything to try and persuade me not to. I left him because of how he has treat me, which everyone else seemed to realise long before me, and i know im probably better of without, but i just miss what we had so much, i thought we were gonna be the perfect little family.

 

[young-mummy]

same!! i think its just because im lonly, because when he didnt want me back i wanted him so damm much and it hurt so bad but now wants me and i think yeah it would be nice but theres too much water under the bridge and he constantly lies so i think hes just come to me for a Rebound rom his new gf so im stayi strong and saying well never work again xxxx

 

[angelpkj]

fob finished me when i was 5 months pregnant,2 weeks before xmas,i still have feelings i don't want to,don't want to hurt when he gets another gf and this and that
he claimes he was guna get back with me and this and that,i know its all lies and its my demon to battle with
im looking into hypnotheapy,willing to try anythin,theres a part of me that wants to let go and not love him so perhaps someone telling my subconcious that may help

 

[taperjeangirl]

yep, I miss him every day

mine left me 2 weeks before xmas after 8 years together.

I hate that I have to suck it up and be nice to him when he gets Daisy but it is getting easier.
I have sworn to myself I will NEVER let him know how much I miss him ever again, I did A LOT the first couple of weeks and now if we argue he uses it against me, saying I'm a psycho that cant let go

Its only been 5 weeks!!

 

[sophiew]

I guess it's a strong bond with the FOB... On the other hand if he has a girlfriend i can understand how that would upset you Whats FOB think? Does he have a clue? How old's LO? x

 

[imaginary8x]

Well I told him how I feel. ;_; let's just say he didn't know what to say. -.- my daughter is 9 months 1 week and 1 day. :s

He is coming back to mine next Friday and I don't know how it will go. :/

 

[Buggie.]

You are definitely not alone. Its been 14 months since my ex and I broke up and I still have feelings for him. It has gotten much better but I still have some feelings.

Honestly, I think it is the lonely aspect of it all. Its truly something to have a child with someone. Especially if you go through a lot together in the process. We don't get along well at all, and can barely stay cordial enough to correspond about our daughter. I definitely think we both hold a lot of resentment towards each other for various reasons.

But still, doesn't seem to change anything!

 

[sophiew]

I think you've very brave for telling him Honey. x