DonnaBallona
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I attend a playgroup once a week with my youngest son who has various health issues. He is tube fed and completley nil by mouth.
We have been attending this playgroup since the first week it opened, and is the only one we go to as I can't get to any others during the week. each week we go, I make sure I remind them about Jude in case of any emergencies. if he puts something in his mouth HE WILL CHOKE. he has no swallow mechanism at all.
Today we turn up to the playgroup as usual, and the woman announces that they have decided to offer snack to the children. Now, immediatly I'm nervous, Jude is a nightmare when food is in the vicinity but I figured id just distract him with toys.
So an hour after we arrive, they start putting all they toys away?! then they put a mat on the floor and spread food over it for the children to help themselves.
this is now a nightmare situation.... I had nothing to distract Jude with, and if I put him on the floor, he could find a tiny peice of food and choke. this is a fairly serious situation for us. I had no choice but to leave. the woman who runs it said to me as I was leaving that 'She didn't want to discriminate' and 'not to feel like I HAD to leave' but I had no choice. I couldn't just sit there with him whilst they ate!
I don't want to stop going really, it's the only place we go during the week! but this could have serious consequences for my son. I feel like they could have thought it through a bit more. I'm now feeling even more isolated than before and I was really upset when we left.
What would you do in this situation?
We have been attending this playgroup since the first week it opened, and is the only one we go to as I can't get to any others during the week. each week we go, I make sure I remind them about Jude in case of any emergencies. if he puts something in his mouth HE WILL CHOKE. he has no swallow mechanism at all.
Today we turn up to the playgroup as usual, and the woman announces that they have decided to offer snack to the children. Now, immediatly I'm nervous, Jude is a nightmare when food is in the vicinity but I figured id just distract him with toys.
So an hour after we arrive, they start putting all they toys away?! then they put a mat on the floor and spread food over it for the children to help themselves.
this is now a nightmare situation.... I had nothing to distract Jude with, and if I put him on the floor, he could find a tiny peice of food and choke. this is a fairly serious situation for us. I had no choice but to leave. the woman who runs it said to me as I was leaving that 'She didn't want to discriminate' and 'not to feel like I HAD to leave' but I had no choice. I couldn't just sit there with him whilst they ate!
I don't want to stop going really, it's the only place we go during the week! but this could have serious consequences for my son. I feel like they could have thought it through a bit more. I'm now feeling even more isolated than before and I was really upset when we left.
What would you do in this situation?