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It Still Hasnt Happened

Cazmania

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Hello Ladies

Officially been trying to conceive for a year now, no disrespect to all you other ladies that have been TTC for much longer, but how did this end up happening?

I already have a beautiful 3yo who would love a sibling, so I cant understand how that could happen so easy and this is taking everything out of me?

We have already started proceedings at the FS and am due for my HSG and SSH and remaining bloodwork next week. I am not convinced that they are going to find anything, although it would almost be easier if they did and could rectify it and we could conceive soon.

Does anyone have similar stories they would like to share? Any success stories etc?
 
Hi! I am sorry you have found yourself here! There is no good way around this process it just plain sucks! I have been ttc #1 for almost 2 years (in August). I, like you, had been hoping my RE would find something wrong so I could "blame" all of this in something. I did 6 rounds of Clomid, post coital, hsg, DH has semenn analysis, everything has come back fine! We took a break until the beginning of this year and then went back to the doctor. He wanted to do a lap & hysteroscopy right away, he found stage 3 endo and removed 2 fibroids. Finally I feel like we have a reason for never being pregnant in 24 cycles.

I am now in my second full cycle after surgery. We have done clomid, trigger, and iui both cycles. Fingers crossed this one takes!! I have had my largest number of follicles and they are the largest I have seen!

Good luck to you!! What has our journey been like??
 
Yes, no one plans to be in this boat and it sucks BAD!
I am going crazy, on this Femara medicine, but even tho its making my life hell, I cant seem to say no because its something im clinging on. how crazy is that? it makes me an emotional phsyco path and I know it but cant let go. because maybe just maybe it may help.

I would love to say after I become preggers I will relax, I hope I can... But ive ben stressed to the max for 2 years, I know nothing else now.

gl
 
I understand, secondary IF makes no sense. If you conceived your first with no problems, how is it you can't conceive number 2 in the average year? I don't know. All I know that infertility, whether it's primary or secondary, is incredibly painful to go thru.

Now all you can is get thoroughly tested. DH needs a SA done to rule him out. Hopefully, they'll identify the issue and suggest a solution.

I'm sorry that you've come over to our dark little corner. With that being said, there's support here if you need it. There's also a great bunch of ladies in Secondary Infertility too. So welcome to LTTC and hopefully your stay isn't as long.
 
Hi! I am sorry you have found yourself here! There is no good way around this process it just plain sucks! I have been ttc #1 for almost 2 years (in August). I, like you, had been hoping my RE would find something wrong so I could "blame" all of this in something. I did 6 rounds of Clomid, post coital, hsg, DH has semenn analysis, everything has come back fine! We took a break until the beginning of this year and then went back to the doctor. He wanted to do a lap & hysteroscopy right away, he found stage 3 endo and removed 2 fibroids. Finally I feel like we have a reason for never being pregnant in 24 cycles.

I am now in my second full cycle after surgery. We have done clomid, trigger, and iui both cycles. Fingers crossed this one takes!! I have had my largest number of follicles and they are the largest I have seen!

Good luck to you!! What has our journey been like??

So sorry to hear about your journey into motherhood - I cannot imagine going through what you have had to go through.
Lets hope that your surgery will aide your mission to conception.

My journey has been pretty boring to say the least. Not one BFP in 12 months/13 cycles. Not even a hint of pregnancy and we have been at it like rabbits, we have tried every method and trick under the sun. I cant accept that it our timing has been off all these months?

Since having my son in 2009, my AF changed tremendously and became very very heavy - the FS believes this may have something to do with my temporary infertility (what an awful word - its almost insulting!).

For now, just waiting on AF to fully arrive (started spotting, which is the usual way it starts) and can book my day 3 bloodwork, HSG and SSH.
 
Yes, no one plans to be in this boat and it sucks BAD!
I am going crazy, on this Femara medicine, but even tho its making my life hell, I cant seem to say no because its something im clinging on. how crazy is that? it makes me an emotional phsyco path and I know it but cant let go. because maybe just maybe it may help.

I would love to say after I become preggers I will relax, I hope I can... But ive ben stressed to the max for 2 years, I know nothing else now.

gl

Any glimmer of hope to keep you going! What is Femara used for?
 
I understand, secondary IF makes no sense. If you conceived your first with no problems, how is it you can't conceive number 2 in the average year? I don't know. All I know that infertility, whether it's primary or secondary, is incredibly painful to go thru.

Now all you can is get thoroughly tested. DH needs a SA done to rule him out. Hopefully, they'll identify the issue and suggest a solution.

I'm sorry that you've come over to our dark little corner. With that being said, there's support here if you need it. There's also a great bunch of ladies in Secondary Infertility too. So welcome to LTTC and hopefully your stay isn't as long.

I have actually been reading most of your chatting on here in the last year - sorry to hear you have still not conceived your little one.

Yes, hubby will def have a SA done although the FS said it is unlikely to be him as he has already conceived a child, but regardless of that we will still push ahead with it. We are just going to get my tests all done and out the way first.

LOL - your dark little corner . . . thanks for welcoming me in!
 
Cazmania gl!!!

so I had my HSG and ultrasund I didnt have a blockage and my follis look great, two of the biggest ones were 14mm each.

femara has the same effect as clomid. It helps you ovulate better eggs. I O on my own so ono prob there we are hoping the femara plus HSG will work!!! any questions feel free to ask, thats how I found out all I know ;) or dont know hahaha
 
I'm a thread stalker as I can't claim LLTTC quite yet. This is month 11 for us and I'm in the TTW right now. I have a feeling I will be officially joining you in a month or two. Sniff, sniff. Hang in there ladies. It does totally SUCK!
 
Well, just called to book my HSG and I am not allowed to have it as I am so allergic to bees. FS overlooked this. Can you believe it??????????

I am sooooooooo upset. I just want answers.
 

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