It's all complicated

[anjadoem]

I really don't know what to do re ntnp. Hoping for advice.
I started new job in June and am on 6 month probation til Dec. They are struggling for money and I am a little paranoid they can't afford me.
Dh and I have sort of been more careless with contraception so have been ntnp really.
I don't know whether to stop ntnp until job issues sorted, look for new job which would put everything back again, or just ntnp anyway and leave it to fate!
I am 33 now.
What do u think????

 

[BrandysBabies]

Honestly, the way I feel about it is that if you wait for the "perfect" time to have a baby, it is never going to happen! If you truely want and feel the need for a baby, then go for it! Everything else will work itself out in the long run.

 

[Shady_R]

I agree I would continue to ntnp cause anything else will sort itself out. There never is a right time for a baby. So waiting for the right time could mean you will be waitini a very long time. I say if its what you want then go for it.

 

[angelwings666]

I agree, keep on with the NTNP, it'll happen when it's meant to happen. I've just applied for a new job, which I'm really hoping to get - my sister advised me to go back to protecting just in case I get it, but since we're NTNP and I've not long come off the pill, I'm just letting what happens happens!! It'll all work out one way or another hun. x

 

[anjadoem]

That's sort of my gut instinct too. Really appeciate your thoughts lovelies. Ntnp it is!! X

 

[RaspberryK]

I am glad you have decided to carry on ntnp, at the end of the day a job is a job! You will be entitled to maternity leave and pay whatever you decide so don't worry about that!

 

[julybabe84]

I agree you should keep up NTNP. I am a firm believer in "Whats for you wont go by you". If the job doesnt work out then its not meant to be.

Good luck x.

 

[anjadoem]

Well, we have def joined camp ntnp now!!!!!
Feels weird but great. Month 1 !
Great to finally belong to category in the forum. Watch this space and good luck ladies. Lady fate will decide!! Xx

 

[Elhaym]

Yay! Good luck!