It's been so long, now I'm lost...

[Sharris]

Hey everyone! I haven't been on this site in almost a year I feel awful, but I had to do something.. I was getting depressed about TTC and I just felt I needed a break.. well, hubby and I haven't done anything different (still not using bc, but not charting, only marking my cycles and when we bd ). Soooo my last 22 cycles are pretty different, and I'm sorta confused on whether I've "missed" AF or not.. any input is so greatly appreciated!!! I didn't skip any months, these are all correct, and the last cycle I had was on Feb 15th 2014.... so I'm officially on CD 48... what do I do? Test? Wait for AF?

My last 22 cycles:

2012
Jan.18-22 +35
Feb.22-25 +38
Mar.31-Apr. 4 +32
May 2-12 +32
Jun. 3-12 +38
Jul. 11-13 +34
Aug. 14-18 +40
Sep. 23-26 +31
Oct. 24-27 +32
Nov. 25-28 +35
Dec. 30- Jan. 1 +30

2013
Jan. 29-31 +34
Mar. 4-6 +33
Apr. 6-8 +37
May 13-15 +36
Jun. 18-21 +33
Jul. 21-23 +34
Aug. 21-27 +34
Sep. 27-30 +35
Nov. 1-3 +37
Dec. 8-10 +42

2014
Jan. 19-21 +27
Feb. 15-18 +48*.........?

 

[lauraloo24]

Hi - definitely test! GL x

 

[SamStormchase]

Yes, I'd definitely test. Do you have any symptoms at all? Huge hugs x

 

[Sharris]

Hi Lauraloo! It's nice to meet you! So I'm not crazy!! I'm planning to test 4/5 if AF doesn't show before, I'm so scared to get my hopes up again! I told my DH I was almost 50 days since my last AF, and that I could be pg.. he nonchalantly said "good" Honestly, that may be why we took a break, I didn't feel he was on board at first, but always wants to make me happy, I almost cried when he said good, and I am keeping fxed! I've got 2 frer (i think?) tests, but they exp 5/14 ? Do you know if that will that effect the result? we discussed him being there when I take it, but MIL agrees it'd be so much more fun to surprise him!

 

[Sharris]

Hi SamStormChase! Nice to meet you! That's what I meant as far as I'm lost.. I haven't a clue what dpo I'm supposed to be, so I'm unsure what symptoms I should be having?

 

[lauraloo24]

The FRER's are within date so I would say they are fine. Got my fingers crossed for you! Also know how it feels to be "lost" since coming off BCP my cycles have varied constantly and in our first cycle TTC i am so worried about missing O! x

 

[Sharris]

I caved and took a test, turns out it was an answer brand lol.. my cell won't let me add pics, but I uploaded the pics from my comp of the test I took on a thread here:https://babyandbump.momtastic.com/pregnancy-tests/2151285-my-biggest-fear-come-true-again-answer-brand-dpo-result-neg.html I don't see anything :/

 

[Sharris]

The FRER's are within date so I would say they are fine. Got my fingers crossed for you! Also know how it feels to be "lost" since coming off BCP my cycles have varied constantly and in our first cycle TTC i am so worried about missing O! x

Fxed for you!!

 

[SamStormchase]

Hey Sharris - my hubby is like that. He knows how badly I want this and his fears are irational. His first fears were good ones and we had them sorted by my clinician who said there are no risks other than ordinary risks to me or baby so all was good on that front. He doesn't think HE'LL be good enough and wants stability etc. WE are stable, WE are never going to be 'rich' all a baby needs is loving parents and that's what we'd be and he will make a FAB dad.

I am currently 4 days DPO and I looked up online and apparently VERY early pregnancy symptoms can include bloated feeling, headache, nausea due to bloating, cramps, and backache, sore/sensitive nipples. I've got those alright. Could just be pms though. Not sure if that helps you.

If you have ovulated, your CM usually dries up right after, but not for every woman. The LH surge that heightens estrogen to release an egg occurs and then you get another LH surge right before AF. I was freaking out thinking I was Oing the day before my period until I found that out.

What day are you in your cycle again?

In the meantime hope these may help :babydust:

https://www.countdowntopregnancy.com/early-pregnancy-symptoms/dpo-chart.php?dpo=1

https://www.early-pregnancy-tests.com/conceive.html

xx

 

[Sharris]

Hey Sharris - my hubby is like that. He knows how badly I want this and his fears are irational. His first fears were good ones and we had them sorted by my clinician who said there are no risks other than ordinary risks to me or baby so all was good on that front. He doesn't think HE'LL be good enough and wants stability etc. WE are stable, WE are never going to be 'rich' all a baby needs is loving parents and that's what we'd be and he will make a FAB dad.

I am currently 4 days DPO and I looked up online and apparently VERY early pregnancy symptoms can include bloated feeling, headache, nausea due to bloating, cramps, and backache, sore/sensitive nipples. I've got those alright. Could just be pms though. Not sure if that helps you.

If you have ovulated, your CM usually dries up right after, but not for every woman. The LH surge that heightens estrogen to release an egg occurs and then you get another LH surge right before AF. I was freaking out thinking I was Oing the day before my period until I found that out.

What day are you in your cycle again?

In the meantime hope these may help :babydust:

https://www.countdowntopregnancy.com/early-pregnancy-symptoms/dpo-chart.php?dpo=1

https://www.early-pregnancy-tests.com/conceive.html

xx

Same here for the most part :/

 

[Sharris]

I think I'm just going to cave and buy more today lol

 

[SamStormchase]

Hugs Sharris xx

 

[Sharris]

I'm officially CD 49... No idea when I od, ff says I was fertile the week before my last cycle.. so I'm even more confused now.. :/

How are you Samstormchase?

 

[SamStormchase]

Sigh hugs - have you taken a pregnancy test???

I am doing ok thank you. Officially 5 DPO... praying for BFN but aside from that, just a good LP will do me this month.

 

[Sharris]

Yes, two answer brands, I posted them in the pg test area, a few people said they say something, but I saw nothing, so hubby is taking me to buy more.. idk which ones lol I don't want the ones with words, I feel it's a little harsh if you're ttc