Just got my bfp at 9-10 dpo!!! Please help!!

[Laylagirl]

Hi! I just got my second bfp since ttc coceive 8 months already.... 1 ended in mc, and now i just got a bfp on frer. Im worried though because i have NO cm at all. And with my last I had lots. So im scared that no cm means no progesterone and no progesterone means no implantation and then ill just have chemical pregnancy.... Af is supposed to start sat march 22, and im so scared that i just should have waited to teat because this is killing me. I feel no symptoms, nothing...please help with your thoughts on this.

 

[jessieJ24]

Hun you are SO early still! I didnt get any real distinct symptoms until 7 weeks and some women don't get excess cm until later or never do!

 

[Laylagirl]

Thank you jessie... That second frer on your pic is exactly how mine looked after about three minutes. You dont think i should worry excessively right now? Im definitley not telling my husband until way later this time..... I hope this is amsticky one.

 

[bumpbear]

I never had any CM with my last pregnancy the entire 9 months and this time is looking the same (I am 11+4). Knickers are always clean and dry!

Don't worry. Its not a sign of anything good or bad if you ask me!

 

[slg76]

every pregnancy is different, even different pregnancies from the same woman. I don't think you have a thing to worry about. (by the way, CM according to my Dr. is more related to estrogen than progesterone)

 

[ashleyg]

I didn't have any CM when I got my positive at 8dpo. And now I'm at 14 weeks and everything is fine. Don't worry!

 

[Laylagirl]

Thank you so much ladies!! You are really making me feel better!

 

[ChristiansMum]

Congratulations x

 

[Sweetpea28]

I hardly had any and now I have a healthy week old baby girl

 

[Rickles]

Mine didn't start until 5 weeks or so... Breathe hun - try not to panic until you really need to - I definitely wouldn't be panicking about cm Only blood and cramps!!!!

Congrats xx

 

[pandi77]

Congrats on your bfp! Will you be planning a trip to the doctor soon?

 

[kazine]

I don't understand why you wouldn't tell your husband? Of all people you should tell him, he's entitled to know if his baby passes surely? :s

 

[reeshy]

I didn't tell my husband until I was CERTAIN either. He is actually more sensitive than I am and it would have been so hard on him that I was excited to give him the surprise and feel confident that it was just a stab in the dark. For some couples, I just think that is the dynamic between the people.

 

[moter98]

I've had two chemicals myself, 2 healthy pregnancies, and pregnant again. In my experience you can't go by symptoms or lack of symptoms. Every pregnancy is different and if I went by just symptoms I would have thought my 2 healthy pregnancies were chemicals too. In the early stages unfortunately you just have to wait it out. The good news though is that you've got an early bfp! My experience with my chemicals was always a later bfp and my healthy pregnancies I got an early bfp.

 

[Jokerette]

Checking in , how are you doing? I didn't have hardly any cm or symptoms until weeks after BFP. I got a BFP at 8dpo