Just had or going through a MC and planning to wait few months...??

[Live42day]

I am soo sorry for everyone's Loss ((hugs))
Hi everyone, If you are going through a MC as I am at the moment or you just had one...and you're planning to wait for a few cycles (months) to pass before TTC again, feel free to join and share what you'll be doing to better prepare yourself mentally, spiritually and physically to start again!!

I'll be exercising, taking my folic acid, Prenatal vitamins (religiously, this time ) and also going to Dr to get checked out and of course stay in prayer ...I want to wait for atleast 3 months b4 TTC again.

 

[klouise1993]

Hiya Live42day so sorry for your loss!
I am sort of going through the same thing the only difference is we started trying straight away I just didn't want to read and run .
Even though we had already started ttc I was still preparing myself at the start such as eating healthier (I did eat quite healthy but not healthy enough), started trying relaxation methods as I'm a very stressful person lol just small stuff like yoga and even listening to relaxing music which used to put me into a relaxing trance lol, when I had my MC I started smoking again for the week I bled due to stress and upset obviously but I quit again as soon as we started ttc, me and my partner also are dtd a lot more.

I dont think there's just a one way method to prepare yourself really the one main one i would say is relaxation and the other is 'trying' to stay positive. I just keep saying to myself everytime I AF arrives "ah maybe next month"
" you'll hold your baby soon Kate just keep at it"

Sorry it's not really the same like i said just didn't want to read and run
Love and luck to you
Hugs xx

 

[kiwilove]

Stay strong ladies
I MC in march, I was on Clomid. Doc wanted me to wait 3 months before trying again, so next period I will be put back on Clomid...of course, I tried naturally. I have PCOS.
I am working my way to quit smoking...once cycle begins im done! I am also going on the Paleo/caveman diet/lifestyle change to help with my hormones. And also trying to stay positive!!! Good luck ladies and i'm terribly sorry for your losses

 

[bdb84]

So many hugs. I'm sorry for your loss, Mama.

I had one in March of 2013. It was an early loss (6 weeks), and I'm still surprised how much it affected me. It made me terrified to TTC again. So much so that for all of last year, DH and I were certain that we would never try again because the chances of going through it again were too terrifying.

Wishing you the best. We are now 3 cycles in to trying for our rainbow baby.

 

[Live42day]

Hiya Live42day so sorry for your loss!
I am sort of going through the same thing the only difference is we started trying straight away I just didn't want to read and run .
Even though we had already started ttc I was still preparing myself at the start such as eating healthier (I did eat quite healthy but not healthy enough), started trying relaxation methods as I'm a very stressful person lol just small stuff like yoga and even listening to relaxing music which used to put me into a relaxing trance lol, when I had my MC I started smoking again for the week I bled due to stress and upset obviously but I quit again as soon as we started ttc, me and my partner also are dtd a lot more.

I dont think there's just a one way method to prepare yourself really the one main one i would say is relaxation and the other is 'trying' to stay positive. I just keep saying to myself everytime I AF arrives "ah maybe next month"
" you'll hold your baby soon Kate just keep at it"

Sorry it's not really the same like i said just didn't want to read and run
Love and luck to you
Hugs xx

Awwe it's ok lol. Thanks! All the best to you for the next try

 

[Live42day]

Stay strong ladies
I MC in march, I was on Clomid. Doc wanted me to wait 3 months before trying again, so next period I will be put back on Clomid...of course, I tried naturally. I have PCOS.
I am working my way to quit smoking...once cycle begins im done! I am also going on the Paleo/caveman diet/lifestyle change to help with my hormones. And also trying to stay positive!!! Good luck ladies and i'm terribly sorry for your losses

so sorry for your loss...Hope u get your angel next time. fx

 

[Live42day]

So many hugs. I'm sorry for your loss, Mama.

I had one in March of 2013. It was an early loss (6 weeks), and I'm still surprised how much it affected me. It made me terrified to TTC again. So much so that for all of last year, DH and I were certain that we would never try again because the chances of going through it again were too terrifying.

Wishing you the best. We are now 3 cycles in to trying for our rainbow baby.

I remember you from my other post: I pray this cycle will be THE ONE for you guys

 

[slowloris]

hello, yup im doing the same. just going through mc now.
me and oh are going to a festival in portugal in august, so i am waiting until after that now to ttc as i couldnt bare something going wrong while im there.
so the next two months im going to focus on my fitness. i was all of may until bfp. i managed to lose half a stone. (i just cant seem to find it- } i would like to lose another half a stone ideally.
ive already been very focused on healthy eating, so im going to keep that up. and continue with the vitamins ect.
i think im going to do as much of the things that i would be too scared to do while pregnant. like vigorous exercise, and enjoy the travel to portugal ect.
i am also going to go to docs and see about getting tests done.
hopefuly we can be ttc buddies in a few months time!

 

[Tmb0047]

Hello :wave:

I'm not sure if or when we will try again but if you don't mind, I'll hang out with you as it would be really nice to have a place to go and chat.

I'm not sure when my little one passed but I began spotting last Saturday. Spotting turned to light bleed by Tuesday and then Wednesday I awoke to clots, tons of blood and strong cramping/contracting. HCG levels took a dive and an ultrasound on Thursday showed no baby. I had a D&C on Thursday at 12weeks 6days.

I am lucky enough to have 3 healthy children so I know I am very blessed. DH and I have not yet discussed if we will try again.

So sorry for everyone's losses. Very sad for us all!