Just letting you know

[Mummy1995]

I'm almost 100% certain my FOB is stalking me on here, so I'm gonna stop posting as much and won't be posting anything personal as I don't want him to know.

I don't understand the point as to why he's doing it because he's made it very clear he's washed his hands of my daughter. Probably another one of his control tactics, so he can keep an eye on me, as per.

I will still post on other people's threads though and if you want we can speak through PM xx

 

[creatingpeace]

What a total douche! Sorry you are going through that nonsense.

 

[Dream.dream]

Can you get the admins to change your display name and you can edit your signature so maybe he can't stalk you?

 

[Ceejay123]

Can you get the admins to change your display name and you can edit your signature so maybe he can't stalk you?

This is what I suggested I'd definitely talk to admini, especially as you didn't give out your username he just found you so it's not your fault. He also sounds like an absolute ass.

I'd ask them if they could just deactivate your account and let you start a new one tbh - and use a different name for your daughter/generic picture x. They may let you

 

[Mummy1995]

Yeah I think I will or make a new account on my other email. Which admin do you think I should contact? It's annoying though because it won't show the posts I've done so won't be able to go in GS etc x

 

[Ceejay123]

Atomicpink/wobbles/tasha are the main ones I see Round, maybe post a thread in the testing section just saying 'are any admins online at the moment that I could pm?' X

And a soon as you've done 100 posts and been around for 1 month you can apply for girly sanctuary again

 

[Dezireey]

Sorry he is doing this to you -

if he is reading this ......you are a tosser, leave her alone.

 

[Wobbles]

As per forum rules you may not create a second account.

A username change will do no good, your profile and posts can still be tracked and it wouldn't take long to realise what has happened.

He has not logged into BabyandBump since April... you know he has an account.

And from a personal point of view why let him bother you so much? I'd not stop my life for anyone (especially one who allegedly doesn't even want to know his own child, blergh). Don't let him control you, you've nothing to hide right? Enjoy your daughter, his loss

 

[teal]

I'm sorry you feel he's stalking you but as wobbles said don't give him the control. Just think how sad it is that he has to look at posts on an online forum rather than just contact you to see her.

 

[Mummy1995]

I guess so.. he must have a crap life to feel the need to stalk me on here and a complete coward as he has my number so it's pretty simple to text me.

Just horrible because I think he saw my last post about me messaging his sister so found out and probably told her not to reply. When it could have been a way for my girl to know at least one person from his family but no he has to continue to be a completely self centred selfish POS. He obviously has no conscience. But one day he's gonna wake up and regret it and me and my daughter will be standing there, with the strongest bond ever and will have the last laugh

He's the only one missing out because Isabella has all the men that she needs in her life! Doesn't need a pathetic and childish little boy to be a bad influence on her! x