Just rang the CSA for an update

[suzanne108]

Its been 4 weeks now so decided to see what they'd done so far.

FOB has only gone and told them he's making "voluntary payments".

He's given me £50 once - on the 1st February.

I know I've got more than some of you girls have so sorry if I'm pissing you off. Just annoying that he makes out he's a good guy, when he's an idiot.

They have contacted his work anyway for his wage details and it's gonna be backdated to 5th March

 

[sweetlullaby]

Nice one

What an arsehole though

I've been seriously tempted with FOB b'day coming up to contact CSA for a b'day present But not going to lol

 

[suzanne108]

I don't blame you....to be honest I wish FOB would sod off and I really wouldn't want his money. But I'm not seeing him once every month or so for nothing!

 

[sweetlullaby]

Yeah we havn't heard from FOB or his family *touch wood* and I know if I contact CSA he'll see that as some "right" to see his son and I'll get a pile of grief.

 

[DizzyMoo]

Paying towards a child gives them no rights whatso ever , As i always say you dont actually pay to see your child you pay to help bring them up!
Men are so fickle sometimes

 

[purpledahlia]

hope it gets sorted, think my claim is getting sorted they rang him today and he got in touch, he said he would pay so hopefully i can get some pennies soon cos i need to stock up on 6-9 stuff!

 

[teal]

That's annoying he told them he's making payments! Glad to hear they are backdating it though xx

 

[tinkabells]

I've cancelled the csa, cos fob payments were gonna be £40 a month, well he can stick that up his arse, he hasnt bought anything for her before during or since, so i dont want his shit money, he can go buy himself a pigeon and hope it gets bird flu and he never catches a fish again!!! hahahahahah xxx

 

[suzanne108]

LOL....sorry laughing at your pigeon fishy thing!

Seriously though...£40?! That's rubbish. You don't want him thinking he has some sort of "hold" over her for the sake of £40 a month so I don't blame you for telling them to stick it.

I'm hoping for about £25-30 a week. Not sure exactly what his earnings are like tho. X

 

[tinkabells]

Haha ya have to laugh otherwise i'd cry, fact he spends more money on his poxy pigeons and fishing, than his own daughter amazes me, so yeah he can stick it!!!

Mmmm yeah depends what his earning love, i think mine fixed it so he dont have to pay out alot, or his lied whole time bragging how much he earns and then gets feck all xxx

 

[vac_uk]

HE SAID WHAT !!! OMG what an idiot !!! Goes to show that he is twisted and a liar !!

 

[cheryl6]

ill make you laugh ladies,my eldest two children(who have a knobhead as a dad)
pays £6.66 a month,over £5000 in arrears,never payed until nov last yr....sits and brags to anybody what cares to listen how much he loves and adores and does everything for his kids...my daughter recieved a txt yesterday off him saying he missing her the last one recieved was new yrs eve,ha pathetic!!!!!

My hubby has brought and raised them since my daughter was 6 (now 13)
the kids dont wish to see him,as they understand who's there for them and who's not its a hard decision but they have made that themselves........

 

[DizzyMoo]

That's like joshs dad ! He's never paid in 4 years & yet loves nothing more than making out he's a caring doting loving " daddy " even though he doesn't see him !

I've just had 1 payment from him through csa for 5wks from january & suddenlyhe's screaming at me that he's providing for him & that i shouldn't need to ask him to help out any other financial way! ....Erm ello ya knob i've never asked for more than the csa he should be paying.. If i did all i got was grief!

Joshs dad pays £27 a week (he has 2 kids) & he's on just about £180 ish a wk.

£40 a month though? he must be on like 100 a wk ???