Keep losing my babies :(

[sammie13s]

What's wrong with me Lost my baby at 9 days old due to iugr now lost my baby at 15 weeks pregnant. I'm so upset. Baby was fine on 12 week scan. Am I ever going to have a baby with my partner?

 

[sbl]

I am so sorry for your losses.
Big hugs.
I really hope you have your rainbow baby xx

 

[nickyb]

I'm so so sorry, have the docs given any indication as to why? I've had several loses but I can't imagine what it must have been like to loose after birth bless u and your angels xxx

 

[sammie13s]

There thinking my placenta is clotting so I was on aspirin and a high dose of folic acid and still lost my baby. Why is it when you want something so much you can't have it? Yet there's mums out there who don't care about there children or babies and they have them? Really upsets me and makes me want to try again but I can't keep putting myself through this but I want it so much I have 2 children from previous husband and all went fine with them. I just don't understand x

 

[petitpas]

I'm so sorry, Sammie You have really been through a lot!

Have you had a full work up? You mention clotting issues, do you know what they were? Most clotting problems I know of are treated with aspirin and heparin injections.

Are you within traveling distance to London? If yes, I would push for a referral to St Mary's. They specialise not only in recurrent miscarriages but also second tri losses, stillbirths and I believe neonatal losses.

I really hope they can help you figure out the right treatment so your next pregnancy goes smoothly and gives you your rainbow baby.

In the meantime, please be kind to yourself and take the time to grieve. Big big hugs