Long term TTC, need IVF

[juniejunie]

I feel like half-a-woman. I am emotionally defeated. I am jealous of pregnant women. Trying and trying and TRYING... to no avail. Doctors say we need IVF treatments. I just want to have a baby with my husband. We're successful, gainfully employed, healthy, fun, we abide by the laws, and pay our bills. It's just something we want more than anything.
Help?

 

[Want1Too]

I feel like half-a-woman. I am emotionally defeated. I am jealous of pregnant women. Trying and trying and TRYING... to no avail. Doctors say we need IVF treatments. I just want to have a baby with my husband. We're successful, gainfully employed, healthy, fun, we abide by the laws, and pay our bills. It's just something we want more than anything.
Help?

Hi juniejunie
I am sorry you are going through this very difficult journey. Stay strong and continue to think about the end goal.
I too can relate to how you feel on every aspect. My mother always said good things never come easy for good people. My husband and I have been trying for over 2 years and no BFP at all. NOT one...
Our journey has taken us on an emotional roller coaster and I am sure yours has too, but hang in there.

Did you try IUI before IVF? I just asked because we decided to do IUI first based on doctors medical recommendation.

Good Luck with IVF!

 

[star25]

Sorry you are feeling like this junie, we all understand how it feels and your not alone
Its good you're on the road to getting help though, I always find, especially at the start of seeking help, that every appointment takes me a step nearer to my dream and it will come true, we just have to fight harder, just think about that feeling when out miracles are here, its just going to take us a bit longer xx