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[Espero]

Hi ladies,

I'm wondering if anyone else out there is in a similar position to me?

This is our fourth pregnancy - I have a history of MMCs, possibly as a result of my PCOS and/or hypothyroidism. So obviously I'm feeling really uneasy about this pregnancy - although I'm still delighted to be pregnant of course!

I've got so much other stuff on my plate at the moment as well - and I just want to go home and curl up in front of the telly with a hot chocolate!

Thanks for reading. xx

 

[Junka]

Hi ladies,

I'm wondering if anyone else out there is in a similar position to me?

This is our fourth pregnancy - I have a history of MMCs, possibly as a result of my PCOS and/or hypothyroidism. So obviously I'm feeling really uneasy about this pregnancy - although I'm still delighted to be pregnant of course!

I've got so much other stuff on my plate at the moment as well - and I just want to go home and curl up in front of the telly with a hot chocolate!

Thanks for reading. xx

hi, iam a bit in your position, i had 2 miscarriages in a row one in june 2012 one in february 2013 ( a week before my BD) and i found out i was pregnant Nov 11th 2013 !!!
iam sooooooo excited nut sooooo scared at the same time!!!
iam trying to take it a day at a time, even though iam worry at every little pain or movement down there.
well we have this great forum where we can talk to women who went through it.
hopefully all goes well for us !!!https://babyandbump.momtastic.com/images/smilies/hug1.gif
when are you due?

 

[Espero]

Hi hun,

Due on the 30th of July - same week as my birthday, my mother's birthday AND my mother in law's birthday. Going to be a horribly expensive month for my husband.

When are you due hun? And how are you feeling?

Espero xx

 

[celine]

Haha espero, im a july 31st baby myself, im due now july 2nd a week after sons birthday and a week before daughters birthday, now thats an expensive two weeks

 

[naomi454]

I am in a similar situation. Molar pregancy 2010. Miscarriage January 2013, September 2012, July 2009, July 2007. Found out that I have Graves Disease and Polycystic Liver. Sending baby dust your way!!!! Due in July 2014.

 

[Junka]

Hi girl,
Iam due July 21st.
Iam at 6 days, 4 days so far.
How are u holding on?
My brother BD is July 31st.!!
Well as for ur husband, it might cost him but he'll
Have the best gift in the world!! A BABY

 

[Junka]

I meant 6 weeks 4 days.
Iam doing fine except for those nasty morning sickness
And the fact that I have to pee every hour lol
How are u feeling??
Hope everything is fine soo far for u Espero

 

[Elephant13]

Hey Ladies,
I had an ectopic in nov last year (8 weeks) & a mc in may this year (9 weeks) i'm currently 8 weeks 4 days. Opted out of early nhs scans as they gave me false hope last time but have booked a private dating scan at 11 weeks as I turn 12 weeks over xmas so is unlikely I will get a scan date on nhs before that, especially seeing as my gp cant see me for booking in apt till next Thursday!
I'm trying to stay very calm and very positive right now. This is the furthest I've come without any complications so i'm hoping all will be well. I have nausea that comes and goes and food aversions like you wouldn't believe, I was really healthy before i fell pregnant but right now I am not thinking too much about that and just eating what I can, i'm sure my normal appetite will come back once I've passed this certain stage! I also have the most painful boobs I've ever experienced in my life haha!
Unfortunetly previous experiences defo take the excitement away well I feel it does for me, do you all feel the same? Its like you hold back from getting carried away "just in case" as difficult as my previous losses were I have a wonderful supportive partner who I have been with since we were 16, we have come through a lot together so I know we can face whatever life chucks our way. Its hard to get your head around the fact that it is literally out of your control. Once you've done the deed so to speak its out of our hands and we cannot control what our bodies do from there after. I intend to stay a lot more relaxed this time round and hopefully go with it. I of course have days were I do worry but there is nothing I can do to change certain situations and life will be what its meant to. I just hope that karma treats us kindly after the crap weve been dealt before lol. Anyone else feeling the same?
Hope you are all keeping ok though! Sending

 

[Espero]

Evening ladies!

Naomi - baby dust and best of luck to you too honey xx

Celine - July seems to be an expensive month - and Leos like expensive presents!

Julia - This is very true - and I think it's fair to bet that Baby will be getting the biggest presents!

Elephant - I know exactly what you mean. I want to be excited and sometimes I get really excited, then I get really nervous and feel anxious. It's really difficult. I think keeping busy is helping - although I'm so... tired...

Espero xx

 

[Junka]

hi Elephant!
i know how u feel, after 2 miscarriages, and pregnant again, iam scared at anything!
yesterday i had the scare of my life, i went out for Thanksgiving with SO and as soon as we got to our friend house, i started feeling extreme pain on my left side and a burning sensation in my lower abdomen. i didnt not want to go to the bathroom at any cost!!! too scared of what might happen if i went there!!!! so i decided to sit it out for a while and see if was going away. but it wasnt so i asked SO to take me home immediatly, and he did ( even though we were there, barely an hour, and he really wanted to stay ) So we left and got a taxi back home. On the way there, the strangest thing happened, as my SO is worrying and tearing up, as he is thinking something bad is happening to the baby, I started feeling better!!!! the closest we got from home and the pain was fading away!!!
as soon as i got home, i went to the bathroom, and to my surprise only pee, no blood !!
i put pijamas on and drank a glass of milk and layed down on the couch watching the RAVEN game. 10 minut later i was pain free!!! nothing!!!
i guess there is no place like home!!!!!!!
i really want this pregnancy to stick!!!!
Hopefully we'll all have a heathy and happy 9 months!!!!

 

[Junka]

this is our time to shine
For all of us trying or pregnant at this time, lets hang in there!!!
Stick babies!!!! Stick

 

[Espero]

Horrid, horrid day.

Woke up this morning and my boobs aren't as sore, so obviously that caused me to have a complete meltdown. Because I am balanced and reasonable. Yes.

After a fall-out today I have just realised that the girl I considered to be my best friend is actually a self-centered ignorant wretch - and a racist, which is so nice.

I'd give anything just to hibernate til the 12 week point. I'm sick of feeling paranoid, lonely and sad. I can't get to speak to my Doctor because the clinic is maxed out. I just feel anxious and exhausted.

Thanks for the rant ladies.

xx

 

[Junka]

Horrid, horrid day.

Woke up this morning and my boobs aren't as sore, so obviously that caused me to have a complete meltdown. Because I am balanced and reasonable. Yes.

After a fall-out today I have just realised that the girl I considered to be my best friend is actually a self-centered ignorant wretch - and a racist, which is so nice.

I'd give anything just to hibernate til the 12 week point. I'm sick of feeling paranoid, lonely and sad. I can't get to speak to my Doctor because the clinic is maxed out. I just feel anxious and exhausted.

Thanks for the rant ladies.


xx

Hey Espero,
Hang in there love, i feel like u my symptoms come and go but my heartburns are back with a vengeance !
my boobs are not sore anymore neither, but have heartburn after anything i eat, its awful! whish i didnt complained to SO about not having symptons 2 days ago!
When it comes to ur "friend" , ignorance is an awful FAULT but you better off without this "fool"
you have us ladies here
when is your next appointment?
my first scan is monday the 16th as iam sooooo scared!!!!
hope all goes well for us hun.

 

[Espero]

Horrid, horrid day.

Woke up this morning and my boobs aren't as sore, so obviously that caused me to have a complete meltdown. Because I am balanced and reasonable. Yes.

After a fall-out today I have just realised that the girl I considered to be my best friend is actually a self-centered ignorant wretch - and a racist, which is so nice.

I'd give anything just to hibernate til the 12 week point. I'm sick of feeling paranoid, lonely and sad. I can't get to speak to my Doctor because the clinic is maxed out. I just feel anxious and exhausted.

Thanks for the rant ladies.


xx

Hey Espero,
Hang in there love, i feel like u my symptoms come and go but my heartburns are back with a vengeance !
my boobs are not sore anymore neither, but have heartburn after anything i eat, its awful! whish i didnt complained to SO about not having symptons 2 days ago!
When it comes to ur "friend" , ignorance is an awful FAULT but you better off without this "fool"
you have us ladies here
when is your next appointment?
my first scan is monday the 16th as iam sooooo scared!!!!
hope all goes well for us hun.

Hi Junka,

A woman has never been so happy to retch uncontrollably as I was this morning. Long may my "BLUERGH!!" last.

Really hope your heartburn isn't so bad today honey. My mother swears by chewing gum. Something to do with tricking your body into producing more digestive... stuff. Spot the Doc...

Got my midwife apt on the 19th - nothing exciting, just getting told off about weight... Can't wait to hear about your scan honey, got everything crossed for you!

Espero xxx

 

[Junka]

hey girl!
soooooooo happy u were sick this morning LOL!!!
hihihihihi
i never drank so much milk in my entire life! but it seems that milk works pretty well for heartburn, never tried gums though. I dont chew gum though.
Oh i wanted to tell you my Boyfriend name is Junji and Iam Katia
so our names combined is JUNKA
Iam french and he is Japanese
Espero what is your name if you dont mind me asking?
Hey have you gotten any CRAVINGS???
i feel like the only craving iam having is French Fries!!! i eat them every day!!!! lol