Looking for advice as a single mom

[Jmoore90]

Hello, I'll be a single mom sometime soon. I've visited this forum before but I never participated. Now I think I need to exchange with you and ask for advice. I decided to be an independent mom, but it's difficult for me to afford the proper medical care. The father of my future baby wants to help me, but I don't want to give him participation at all. Should I accept his help?

 

[Isme]

I think it really depends on why you're going to be single. Is the father a good guy? Or is he abusive or dangerous in some other way?

 

[ElmoBumpToBe]

Totally agree with poster above, if he is abusive in anyway then that's a different story, but if not then your medical care is very important and you should view it as medical care for you baby not just for you, and he has a responsibility to that baby and whilst you are carrying him
Or her to you as well so I think if you can't afford it and even if you could, you should absolutely accept in depending on the circumstances mentioned xx