Looking for some suggestions - access visits

[pinkie77]

Up until now I've been meeting fob in town for a couple of hours but realistically this can't continue as Phoebe is getting bored and often falls asleep, leading to him moaning that she's asleep! Also he keeps telling lies to people that we're back together (among other things) and cos we're seen together it's believed. That gets back to my older kids and obviously isn't good for them as his bad treatment of them is one of the main reasons we're not together.

I just don't know what else to suggest! There are no soft play places that are easy to get to locally, I was thinking park in better weather but that won't be a while yet. Hoping there's something obvious that I've missed by overthinking lol

 

[teal]

I'm probably not going to be much help as I have no contact with fob but I didn't want to read and run

I think the park is a good idea. I know it's a bit colder at the moment but could you just wrap her up well and go for a while?
Or could you visit him at his place or is that not really an option?

Hope you're ok xx

 

[pinkie77]

Thanks for answering teal

I'm going to suggest the park next week as long as it's dry and not snowing lol. Unfortunately his place isn't suitable due to where he lives. I don't know what will happen long term though, I guess something will work out.

 

[xSophieBx]

Have u looked on netmums at 'local places' to go... Theres loads of diff things.. How about swimming? LO will be happily entertained and u just get to sit back lol.

 

[pinkie77]

Have u looked on netmums at 'local places' to go... Theres loads of diff things.. How about swimming? LO will be happily entertained and u just get to sit back lol.

Thanks, I've had a look on there but most things are out of town or shut until the summer season (helpful not!) Things like swimming are out due to her dad's health problems which is one of the main reasons he doesn't have unsupervised visits atm. It's a lovely idea though