I have always been a bigger gal, always trying to lose weight and hated my flabby bits... I only put 28lbs on while pregnant and only 7 lbs of pre pregnancy weight ( didnt have the best body to begin with so does not mean much) lol. BUT despite the extra flabbyness and the stretch marks on my tummy and the even wider hips than before I am so much more confident in myself, I look and my body and think it made and carried my beautiful baby and gave birth.... its amazing. Instead of wanting to lose weight now I just want to be healthy for my son and be in even better shape for future pregnancy...