LTTC - new worries and anxiety's

[Nikki_K]

Hi ladies.
I'm new to the LTTC section. I am bored of watching "newbies" getting pregnant straight away or complaining they are having a hard time after only 1 cycle. (I know I sound soo horrible, I'm sorry) but it's been a long journey for me and my DH.

We have been TTC for 3years now with no luck. I FINALLY got seen by my doctor who referred me for an ultrasound. The results came back and I was diagnosed with PCOS. Since then I have been suffering with anxiety attacks and insomnia. I don't know how to feel or what to expect and just needed some friendly, female advice. I have an appointment to see a fertility specialist next week but I'm soo afraid my anxiety will keep me from going. I really need the advice from the specialist but I'm just soo afraid of what they'll say. I know I sound like a silly person but I thought if anyone could help me it'd be you girls..

Thank you for listening to me..
Hugs and love to everyone - I'm sorry for going on xx

 

[mjemma]

Hi Nikki, I'm sorry to hear you are having a hard time. It's not horrible to be bored of newbies getting BFPS, we all feel it. It can feel scary going to see the FS but it is better to know so that you can get any help you need. I have PCOS and I feel much more positive now I am getting some treatment. Can you go and see your GP to get some help for the anxiety?

 

[MrsPete]

I think most women are anxious about their first trip to a fertility specialist. I mean, we would all rather not have to go through this, right?! For three years you've been worried about what could be wrong. It's better to go to the doctor to find out more about your diagnosis and receive treatment, rather than sitting at home helplessly worrying and wondering what could be wrong and what you can do about it.

 

[heavenly]

Hi ladies.
I'm new to the LTTC section. I am bored of watching "newbies" getting pregnant straight away or complaining they are having a hard time after only 1 cycle. (I know I sound soo horrible, I'm sorry) but it's been a long journey for me and my DH.

We have been TTC for 3years now with no luck. I FINALLY got seen by my doctor who referred me for an ultrasound. The results came back and I was diagnosed with PCOS. Since then I have been suffering with anxiety attacks and insomnia. I don't know how to feel or what to expect and just needed some friendly, female advice. I have an appointment to see a fertility specialist next week but I'm soo afraid my anxiety will keep me from going. I really need the advice from the specialist but I'm just soo afraid of what they'll say. I know I sound like a silly person but I thought if anyone could help me it'd be you girls..

Thank you for listening to me..
Hugs and love to everyone - I'm sorry for going on xx

Hey you. Well, I feel your pain. I have been TTC for 4 years, I am 46 and this is our last chance saloon! Started seeing a FS last Autumn, he is great. I have been put on Clomid for a while, if that doesn't work, we will have to look at IVF, I am scared but I just take each day as it comes.

I suffer from anxiety and am on ADs for it, I see a counsellor who is great. I do understand. When I got a high FSH last year, I thought I was going through an early menopause and I had a bad anxiety attack, but then I saw the FS and had a couple of more tests done, and it was fine. Knowledge is power, so going to see a specialist is the best thing, trust me. I feel better that we have someone to see and to talk to.

And you will have a lot of support on here.

 

[tonibzac]

welcome hun hope your stay here is short xxx

 

[chrome]

Hi ladies.
I'm new to the LTTC section. I am bored of watching "newbies" getting pregnant straight away or complaining they are having a hard time after only 1 cycle. (I know I sound soo horrible, I'm sorry) but it's been a long journey for me and my DH.

We have been TTC for 3years now with no luck. I FINALLY got seen by my doctor who referred me for an ultrasound. The results came back and I was diagnosed with PCOS. Since then I have been suffering with anxiety attacks and insomnia. I don't know how to feel or what to expect and just needed some friendly, female advice. I have an appointment to see a fertility specialist next week but I'm soo afraid my anxiety will keep me from going. I really need the advice from the specialist but I'm just soo afraid of what they'll say. I know I sound like a silly person but I thought if anyone could help me it'd be you girls..

Thank you for listening to me..
Hugs and love to everyone - I'm sorry for going on xx

You aren't alone. Me and my partner have been trying over 3 years, not even a hint. After 2 years of trying, we plucked up the courage to see the GP, found out i'm diabetic, and have PCOS. I'm also severely overweight.
I'm not the best person to be giving advice right now, simply cos my faith in conceiving is through the floor tonight.

i just wanted to let you know, you aren't alone.