LTTTC 3 years or Longer?

[samoorah1983]

Been TTC since 2009. I have undergone all testing, tested utures, ovaries, tubes everything is normal, period is also normal as well cycle ranges 28-33 days. A month ago I checked my blood which came back normal, but had 1 abnormal results which was my Thyroid, It turns out I have an inflammation, and I am at high risk of hypothyroid... Doctor wants me to check every six months to see the blood results for hypothyroid, and said I should have no problem getting pregnant, hubby used to smoke but now he's smoke free and he hasn't smoked since 4 months. Hubby hasn't done andrology testing yet, but he has vitamin D defiency, he's already prescribed pills for it and taking them.. Wanted to see if anyone is going through the same situation but got pregnant naturally or with fertility help?

Maybe in this thread we can talk and share our stories together to give each other motivation and support and hopefully getting our soon and keep the away and to all and God Bless.

 

[Deb111]

Sorry you're going through this. We were 3 and a half years TTC, but 2 years of that was dealing with MF issues we discovered. My biggest piece of advice to you is to get your husband to do a SA. I take it when you say he hasn't had any andrology testing, you mean he hasn't done a SA? It could provide an answer for you and something to work on .

Good luck x

 

[samoorah1983]

Sorry you're going through this. We were 3 and a half years TTC, but 2 years of that was dealing with MF issues we discovered. My biggest piece of advice to you is to get your husband to do a SA. I take it when you say he hasn't had any andrology testing, you mean he hasn't done a SA? It could provide an answer for you and something to work on .

Good luck x

Thanks Deb111 I cannot wait for our health care insurance to start and get my hubby going I really hope he's fine that maybe it could be stress... But thanks for your advice... Btw are you Preggo?

 

[samoorah1983]

Anyone??

 

[hopefull85]

5 years TTC and it hurts everyday. it doesnt help when you are around people that are younger than you and are either pregnant with their second one or trying for their second one. its a pain thats so hard to describe. i try to be strong and put a smile on my face everyday but no matter what its always there

 

[purplesparkle]

Hey i've been ttc concieve for 3 years now, unexplained fertility. Have had 6months of clomid and 1 iui that resulted in bfn's. waiting for my 2nd iui in a few weeks

 

[lupinerainbow]

Hey, i been ttc for 39 cycles so over 3 years now, every month gets harder. Have just been found out that i have low folate levels and have just started treatment for this. Am hoping this is what our problem is, have had bloods and that done and a SA and partner is fine. Had a normal ultra sound and nothing found, now got to get my bloods done this cycle then can arrange next appointment and internal ultra sound and they are doing swabs and stuff. The folate defiency was found out by a blood test that was done before i just had to start some new tablets so my FS is not aware of this yet. Am now on 5mg of folic acid daily.
I am 20, my husband is 22 we have been together 5 1/2 years and have been married for 6 months. Started trying for a baby when i was 16 and he was 18 so when we had been together for 2 years. Suppose i am lucky that i am still young except it does mean if there is a worse reason we cannot get pregnant and we can't do it naturally we have to wait 3 years before the nhs will consider us. We have just started a savings account for our future baby or IVF if its needed we like to think ahead. Think thats mostly all there is to know.

xxxxx

 

[Deb111]

Sorry you're going through this. We were 3 and a half years TTC, but 2 years of that was dealing with MF issues we discovered. My biggest piece of advice to you is to get your husband to do a SA. I take it when you say he hasn't had any andrology testing, you mean he hasn't done a SA? It could provide an answer for you and something to work on .

Good luck x

Thanks Deb111 I cannot wait for our health care insurance to start and get my hubby going I really hope he's fine that maybe it could be stress... But thanks for your advice... Btw are you Preggo?

Yes, I will be 12 weeks tomorrow, but the NHS told us because of my dh's problems, it could never happen even with IVF and that we would have to consider adoption. We went privately. Trust me, after nearly 4 years, I know the frustration and despair, but I would like to think this gives you some hope that it CAN happen.

All the best xx

 

[sarah4]

Hi I'm 23 and been trying to conceive for around 4 years. I've had bloods done and their normal and my husbands had a SA and that was normal. I've got an appt on tues to see a fertility specialist and got an ultrasound due in 2 weeks. It's quite hard I think for people that are young and long term trying to concieve because sometimes it feels like they think we are mad to look in to our fertility at such a young age. My period is late by about 4 days but I don't want to test untill sat when it will be a week late. I've just started taking pregnacare pre conception about a month ago and I've heard that it can mess with cycles so it could be that that's the reason I'm so late. Xx

 

[samoorah1983]

5 years TTC and it hurts everyday. it doesnt help when you are around people that are younger than you and are either pregnant with their second one or trying for their second one. its a pain thats so hard to describe. i try to be strong and put a smile on my face everyday but no matter what its always there

Hi I understand how you feel I'm the same way, all my cousins or friends that got married already got pregnant and gave birth and I'm just looking at myself and go what the hell is wrong with me? Or with us? Just trying to be patient and see what's gonna happen trying to get Preggo before 30 that's all that matters Lool.. Hopefully soon well all get to our dream and just keep positive and it'll happen.

 

[samoorah1983]

Hey i've been ttc concieve for 3 years now, unexplained fertility. Have had 6months of clomid and 1 iui that resulted in bfn's. waiting for my 2nd iui in a few weeks

I really hope you get your :BFP: soon!! Just stay positive, I guess stress plays a big role in part of the pregnancy or trying to conceive process.. We're here all together on this roller coaster ride hoping to get past through it and it should end soon... Baby dust to you and wish you the best!!

 

[samoorah1983]

Hey, i been ttc for 39 cycles so over 3 years now, every month gets harder. Have just been found out that i have low folate levels and have just started treatment for this. Am hoping this is what our problem is, have had bloods and that done and a SA and partner is fine. Had a normal ultra sound and nothing found, now got to get my bloods done this cycle then can arrange next appointment and internal ultra sound and they are doing swabs and stuff. The folate defiency was found out by a blood test that was done before i just had to start some new tablets so my FS is not aware of this yet. Am now on 5mg of folic acid daily.
I am 20, my husband is 22 we have been together 5 1/2 years and have been married for 6 months. Started trying for a baby when i was 16 and he was 18 so when we had been together for 2 years. Suppose i am lucky that i am still young except it does mean if there is a worse reason we cannot get pregnant and we can't do it naturally we have to wait 3 years before the nhs will consider us. We have just started a savings account for our future baby or IVF if its needed we like to think ahead. Think thats mostly all there is to know.

xxxxx

I hope everything works out well for you, you are still young and things will be better... I found out I have inflammation in my thyroid, so I'm at high risk of hypothyroid which makes my metabolism slow and affects my hormones, so have to keep checking my blood levels and see where I'm heading and if I need to be treated for it. But in the meantime doctor said I should have no problem getting Preggo but well see.. Best of lunch and lots of

 

[samoorah1983]

Sorry you're going through this. We were 3 and a half years TTC, but 2 years of that was dealing with MF issues we discovered. My biggest piece of advice to you is to get your husband to do a SA. I take it when you say he hasn't had any andrology testing, you mean he hasn't done a SA? It could provide an answer for you and something to work on .

Good luck x

Thanks Deb111 I cannot wait for our health care insurance to start and get my hubby going I really hope he's fine that maybe it could be stress... But thanks for your advice... Btw are you Preggo?

Yes, I will be 12 weeks tomorrow, but the NHS told us because of my dh's problems, it could never happen even with IVF and that we would have to consider adoption. We went privately. Trust me, after nearly 4 years, I know the frustration and despair, but I would like to think this gives you some hope that it CAN happen.

All the best xx

Congratulations!! I am happy for you.. You gave me hope not to give up sometimes I feel like I do, my hubby yesterday told me that his company are gonna give him the healthcare packages that we could choose from and I was so excited!! So I can't wait till we get the packages and start choosing.. Thank you.. And happy healthy 9 months!!

 

[samoorah1983]

Hi I'm 23 and been trying to conceive for around 4 years. I've had bloods done and their normal and my husbands had a SA and that was normal. I've got an appt on tues to see a fertility specialist and got an ultrasound due in 2 weeks. It's quite hard I think for people that are young and long term trying to concieve because sometimes it feels like they think we are mad to look in to our fertility at such a young age. My period is late by about 4 days but I don't want to test untill sat when it will be a week late. I've just started taking pregnacare pre conception about a month ago and I've heard that it can mess with cycles so it could be that that's the reason I'm so late. Xx

Well you guys are still young and hopefully you would get your :BFP: soon without any help .. You never know!! Good luck and

 

[eternaldream]

5 years TTC and it hurts everyday. it doesnt help when you are around people that are younger than you and are either pregnant with their second one or trying for their second one. its a pain thats so hard to describe. i try to be strong and put a smile on my face everyday but no matter what its always there

It's really nice to know that you ladies get how I feel. It's great to have such a wonderful and supporting group.

 

[baby222]

I am 22 Y.O. , been married for 2 years, and still waiting please help , no problems with anything , I want BABYYYYYYYYY , Oh my GOD , Please help me