Message To Harley's Dad

[Novbaby08]

You know what Tyler. I don’t want you to come see her because you are unreliable. For the nine months that I was pregnant, you ignored me and I still allowed you to come visit at the hospital. We were home a month before I heard from you again and I still gave you another chance to make things right. You have blown it everytime. I think you being too busy is a bunch of bullshit. You aren’t enrolled in school or working at a job so what the hell are you doing. I am not convinced that you have made a true effort to be in her life and I don’t want you around hurting her later with your lies and irresponsibility. You think I am over reacting? Am I? You spend more time bullshitting me than actually doing anything. Your apologies are useless because they have no meaning and you don’t change thing. I am looking out for the well being of my daughter not trying to save your feelings. How is she your little girl when me and my family are the ones taking care of her, holding her when she cries, changing her diapers and financially supporting her. You don’t get to be a father only when its convenient for you.

 

[brownhairedmom]

Good job. You know what I'd do now? Keep a copy of that e-mail. Go to court and get full custody established so that he can't take you and say you won't let him see her. If they won't do that, at the very least they will give him established times to visit, and if he doesn't do it then he loses that privlidge.

 

[xJG30]

Well done chick

 

[angels330]

great words very strong. id agree with scorpio def keep a copy. hope everything works out for you xx

 

[Novbaby08]

I don't need to go to court. I didn't put him on the birth certificate, and Harley has my last name. So he doesn't have any rights to her. I was letting him see her out of the goodness of heart. It wasn't his right it was his privilege. So I don't need to take him to court. and he couldn't afford it anyways