MIL Rant

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So I took Gracelynn to her doctors appointment yesterday
and the doctor said she needed to have her Jaundice checked out and she sort of has click in her hip on her right hip.
So we had to go over and have a test done for her Jaundice
and the hip thing we are waiting till we go back in November to see if its still there cause it would be there once second and not the next.

Well anyways my mom went into the doctors office as I sat with Gracelynn in the room.
well the doctor came out and told me that Gracelynn had a stressful delivery.
since I had to have a emergency c-section and she didn't breath at first when
they got her out of me.
So she was considered being a preemie even though she was born exactly 37 weeks.
So she told me that Gracelynn doesn't need to be anywhere but my house which I live with my parents and to her doctor appointments.
Well when I told the OH he was sort of confused but then after I explained it to him he sort of understood me a little bit more.

But his mom said Gracelynn's doctor was a quack because she doesn't want her anywhere but those two places.
I told them that they could come into my house and see her but they said they probably won't.
So now OH's family is mad at ME!
I'm listening to what the doctor told me.
and its best because the Gracelynn was in the nursery the whole 5 days we were at the hospital.
its like what am i supposed to do? not listen to the doctor and take her out so she can get sick?
and possibly die?

Not happening!
It had almost happened the day she was born.
I am not losing my baby and I am listening to her doctor.
She is a doctor for a reason.

I just don't understand why they have to be so self centered at times!!!!
Sorry its long guys. I just had to let it all out.
Been a long week
 
Your mother in law is quack more like.
Ofcourse you should always put the health of your daughter before the wants of your MIL. She is just being selfish.
My mother in law was soo jealous of my parents when i gave birth even though i was living with her and she would fall out with me if i went to visit my parents.
Im not too keen on MILS i find them interfering sorry if i have been offensive
xxxx
 
Ohhh MIL's always think they know best! I would listen to the doctor to hun, your MIL is just being really overdramatic right now. If they're mad at you then they're stupid. You are a new mom and of course you're going to listen to what the doctor tells you because they know what is best for the baby (next to you, of course). If you've offered them to come over to your house and they're simply mad because you won't take her over there then they can just get over it. Besides Gracelynn is only a week old, you don't need to be courting her about from house to house you know? If they really wanna see her they can go over to your house! :flower:
 
Your mother in law is quack more like.
Ofcourse you should always put the health of your daughter before the wants of your MIL. She is just being selfish.
My mother in law was soo jealous of my parents when i gave birth even though i was living with her and she would fall out with me if i went to visit my parents.
Im not too keen on MILS i find them interfering sorry if i have been offensive
xxxx

No your not being offensive at all.
I havent ever been really keen of the MIL since I have know the OH.
 
Ohhh MIL's always think they know best! I would listen to the doctor to hun, your MIL is just being really overdramatic right now. If they're mad at you then they're stupid. You are a new mom and of course you're going to listen to what the doctor tells you because they know what is best for the baby (next to you, of course). If you've offered them to come over to your house and they're simply mad because you won't take her over there then they can just get over it. Besides Gracelynn is only a week old, you don't need to be courting her about from house to house you know? If they really wanna see her they can go over to your house! :flower:

thats exaclty what I was thinking.
If they dont want to see her for 6-8 weeks thats there fault
They are more and welcomed to come over anytime!
 
Excuse my language!

Selfish B*tch!

Your doing whats best for your daughters health and she needs to open her god damn eyes and see that!
Silly moo she is!
 

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