Miscarriage Update - ongoing

[carmen]

Hi Everyone,

You may remember the post i posted about a week or so ago about my missed miscarriage that was ongoing. I recieved some great responses and since been on here it made me feel less of a failure for the miscarriage.

Well i told you all that there was prenancy tissue left in ( very small amount)
and they booked me in for surgery on Thursday.

But Friday gone i started bleeding like a menustration but with tissue and small clots coming away,i went to hospital yesterday and she said that alot had come away but she didn t want to cancel my appointment just incase a little stays in. But she said that give it more days and before surgery they will give me a scan to see if all is away, if yes then i dont have to have the surgery. Yippee!!!

But i said to her don't really want to have surgery for a tiny bit that may come out with menstration.But then again i want it to be finished this week so i can just try again.

If anyone has had medical management or naturally passed in, can you give me some info wether your doctor recommended d+c for a little amount?

 

[Serene123]

No advice, just

 

[Dee_H]

First off, so sorry for your loss. My doc told me to have a d&c to make sure everything is cleaned out. If it is not...there is a chance for infection. Hopefully when you have your scan it will all be gone and you won't need surgery.Good luck

 

[Vickie]

So sorry for your loss. I hope that your scan shows up clear and you don't need to have surgery

 

[carmen]

i will be so happy if my body does the rest naturally .i cross my fingers x

 

[ElliesMum]

Sorry to hear about your loss

With all the m/c's i've had, i always wanted surgery as a last resort so always tried to let things happen naturally. After a couple of weeks with each i always had to go in for surgery in the end. At least with surgery you know that there has been nothing left to cause infection etc, plus i was always told (dont know if its true) that you were more likely to fall pg quicker after a D&C.

 

[foofox37]

I miscarried on the 7 feb but i actually started to lose the baby on the 2nd,i figured i would just handle it at home myself and for a couple of days it was fine but then i started bleeding really heavily and the pain was indescribable,i ended up getting rushed into hospital A and E where i was given morphine put on a saline drip but no one actually bothered to check my blood loss the entire time i was in the department, finally after being left on my own for the best part of 3 and half hours a gynaecologist came and i was rushed up and cleaned up, i dint have an actual D and C but was bleeding badly because the cervix couldnt clear its self and thats why i lost so much blood. As a result of this i am now severely anaemic and am currently on a 3 month course of iron as i refused the transfusion because it should have been done whilst i was in the A and E not the next dy when the damage was done. Am ok now and my OH and myself will be trying again but i am so angry at the moment i cant function properly. Am sorry for anyone who has had togo through the loss and my thoughts and love are with you all

Karen

 

[carmen]

OMG Karen,

That sounds awful really. I m bad enough in hospitals so i would have just been flipping.

I can understand why you refused the transfusion. Justed wanted to give you .

I was different as i haven t had d+c , i took the tablets and the last remaining skin as come natural over the process of 3 weeks. So it as dragged out abit.But i was just too scared.

Its early days now , but you'll come through it strong

 

[Omi]

HI Carmen, so sorry to hear about your loss.

Im much in the same situation. I went in for my first scan today and was told there's no heatbeat and the baby is the 6 weeks and not 10 weeks. I know my dates are spot on and also the midwife aknowledged it looks bad as i had a positive test the 7th of Jan......

I now have to wait for a follow up scan next week but really I just want to move on, have the poor thing removed and get back to 'normal'.

I'd like to try again as soon as possible but I feel awful knowing there's a dead baby inside of me

This is by far the worst feeling ever and a terrible emotional rollercoaster!! Today I've gone from total elation at the expectation of seeing my baby for the first time to hearing its practically dead

I'd like wish all the ladies here the best of luck in the future and thanks for being such an amazing support!!! xx

 

[funkym]

I'm so sorry to hear your loss

I know how you feel the same thing happened to me. It's hard at the time and no one can make you feel better but i believe time is a great healer.

xxxx

 

[jo27]

Hopefully everything will clear out and you won't need anything further sounds promising if they said some of it has already cleared x

 

[kymlamerton]

hi there realy sorry to hear that but ive had two complete miscarrages( when its comes away as a period ) and one when i needed a d & c and to be honest the one with the d & c was best as i fell pregnant 4 weeks after and before it id been trying for a baby for 4 years , hope this helps as i know how crap it is losing a baby, fingers xd you fall pregnant soon

 

[foofox37]

Hi Carmen

Thank you so much for your reply,i am ok now getting there slowly day by day, am less angry than i was the other day,i refused the transfusion cos at the time i just wanted to go home and be quiet,i am sure its a feeling all of you can identify with,i know i will be trying again as i am no quitter lol, thank you for your lovely reply

Karen x

 

[carmen]

FooFox37

When i hear someone else with a similiar story i feel for them so much. And i think babyandbump is such a great place to recieve support and just let you know that its good to share because there are alot of people that have went through teh same or are going through the same.

 

[carmen]

I have just come back from the Hospital, and the scan as showed the lining of the uterus back to normal. And the doctor says there is no need ofr surgery.

I had a blood test taken just to check my Hcg levels so i will recieve the results tomorrow.

She estimates me getting my menustration in 2-4 weeks , and after that she will do another scan to just check up on everything.

So after almost 4 weeks from taking medical management my body as got it out naturally and i am pleased to say i am so happy not to have surgery.I have also decided to wait abit before trying again ( 3-4 month) just to prepare my body again.

 

[Rumpskin]

Well done Carmen. AF returned exactly 4 weeks to the day for me.

Hoping she turns up soon.

 

[carmen]

Thanks Rumpskin,

Im abit worried cos i can t really look to see when i have my mensustarion because i took the tablets, almost four weeks ago and stopped bleeding skin etc. last wednesday.

I m normally like clockwork every 28 days guess i'lk just have to wait and see

 

[xclairex]

well done hunny glad it went ok x

 

[carmen]

Thanks xclairex