Morning sickness gone....feeling devastated.

[Spudtastic]

Hello ladies.
I'm just having a share because I need to. I am around 6+4 today. Last monday the ms started and Thursday morning it culminated in a vomit. Thursday afternoon I had some contractions - or what felt like contractions..braxton hicks or something but I think it's too early for them. Since then my morning sickness has decreased and now completely disappeared and the 'growing a baby' feeling has gone too. I just feel so devastated. I don't feel pregnant any more. I really don't have the energy to do another miscarriage and ttc again.

 

[sportysgirl]

Have you taken another hpt? For some reassurance? Xx

 

[Spudtastic]

No I haven't but mainly because I thought that only two days after having a vomit my hcg would be very high still. I always get terrible morning sickness so it's strange for it to have disappeared completely.

Thanks for your reply.x

 

[sportysgirl]

I hope all is ok and it's just early days so fluctuating symptoms. X

 

[Spudtastic]

Thank you. I hope it's ok too but my gut instinct tells me otherwise. I hope I'm wrong.

 

[sportysgirl]

Its so hard after previous losses not to think the worse and check every symptom or lack of. x

 

[mummy2o]

In my last pregnancy I had terrible morning sickness and had a miscarriage (19 weeks). This time I've had nothing but saw a heartbeat. Still doesn't make it any easier though. I think people who have had losses are happy once they have got a baby in their arms, especially is they've had a later loss.

 

[GI_Jane]

At 9 weeks all my pregnancy symptoms completely disappeared overnight (nausea, bloating etc) because I'd had a loss before I was devasted too and convinced the baby had gone. I booked a private scan and there was my perfect little bub heart beating away and wriggling. He is now 19 months old.

Your symptoms will come and go, stay strong I know it's not easy but it doesn't automatically mean the end

 

[Spudtastic]

Thanks Ladies for your comments.
I started feeling sick again last night and vomited this morning so I guess I'm happier again. i know I need to relax. I'm just expecting things to go wrong and I'm familiar with morning sickness not being an indicator. WIth my mmc baby died at 10 weeks but morning sickness did not go until 14 weeks.
I hae a scan on 2nd June so I will just hold tight until then.

 

[Blu10]

I think your anxiety is normal spud. Ive had a few days where ive not felt pregnant and its awful. Im 9 weeks now and found out if had a mmc last time just before 10 weeks so im starting to feel anxious now and am probably over symptom spotting. Roll on the 12 week scan x

 

[Spudtastic]

Blu - pregnancy after losses are very hard. I woke up bot feeling pregnant this morning again. No sickness and no tummy ache
Yeah I was told by the obgyn that in the first tri babies either don't make it past the 5th week or the 10th. It was the same with my mmc between the ninth and tenth weeK. Good luck at your scan. I can't wait to be out of the first tri.

 

[lilmisscaviar]

I had HG (severe morning sickness) in the last three of my four previous pregnancies. Two of them still ended in loss despite how sick I was.

My first MC I DID lose my symptoms suddenly, literally within a day. My morning sickness was suddenly gone and I felt... well... really good! To suddenly feel better made me a bit skeptical. I thought I was just getting to the point where the pregnancy hormones were leveling out until a scan revealed I had, indeed, lost the baby. Took my hcg levels only a week to return to 0.

On the other hand, with my second MC, betas showed levels at 55,000 a week before my scan. At my ultrasound appointment they found no heartbeat and betas took 5-6 weeks to plummet back to 0. In short, anything can happen. If there is one thing I have found out, it is that every pregnancy is different and you can't always go by symptoms.

 

[Blu10]

Ive already had a few early scans due to bleeding and baby was ok but still feel anxious. Yesterday morning i felt so crappy but today ive felt pretty normal all day and my boobs are less sore again. Id be beyond guttted by another loss! Fingers crossed for us both x

 

[Spudtastic]

Thanks lilmisscaviar. I'm sorry for your losses. I guess I'm used to hg as I had that with dd and with my mmc. With my mmc sickness lasted for 6 weeks aftet the baby died.

Blu - do you have a date for your next scan. I'm not sure how I would handle another loss either. I don't think I'll ever be truly over the mmc.

last time I asked my midwife if she had any theories why ms is worse is some pregnancies. She thought that if the baby was genetically more like the father then ms is more severe as your body is trying to deal with something so different from your own genetic make up. It would be interesting to know.

 

[mummy2o]

last time I asked my midwife if she had any theories why ms is worse is some pregnancies. She thought that if the baby was genetically more like the father then ms is more severe as your body is trying to deal with something so different from your own genetic make up. It would be interesting to know.

I hope this is true as none of my kids look like me. I swear people think I just adopted a random bunch of kids whilst out and about! Although I had no morning sickness with my son either, but he totally has my personality. Not sure if that's good or bad