I know. At her last appointment though the midwife couldn't find a heart beat at all. I'm confused as to why she didn't order an ultrasound...I thought that was standard protocol...especially since her first scan showed her to be around 8 weeks I believe and her next appt was a month later.
Overall she had terrible prenatal care. She went in originally because she was still lactating after a year of not breastfeeding. The PA told her she had a pituitary tumor, that she was pregnant, to not quit smoking, and to have an abortion. She ended up not even having a tumor! And even if she had had this kind of tumor, pregnancy was perfectly safe with no adverse effects on her or a baby. Then she was given wellbrutin to help her quit smoking. She was a pretty heavy smoker. Not surprisingly, being told she had a brain tumor didn't help her to quit, or even cut back. It's just been a huge mess!
We went to her daughter's birthday party today...she turned 2. Her and her OH seem to be doing a lot better. She says it's hard for her to be alone though.